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I don’t get along with my sister.

She has always been sneaky, even when we were younger. She would get me in trouble and our father was mean, he hit us. When we got older we used to sneak out together and go cruising. Once she got a boyfriend she started telling on me for doing the things she did with me before. We got into a fist fight and didn’t talk for years. She recently got divorced and I was separated from my husband. I started dating this guy and then she started talking to him and slept with him !! She called me and acted like nothing new. She knew I was talking to him at the time. I ended up getting back with my husband and i’m glad that it went no further with the other guy. He ended up dumping her and moving on himself. Now, I don’t trust her. I think she does things purposely to annoy me. My other sister is getting married and doesn’t want to invite her or her kids (very unruly) because they don’t get along. I want to be nice and not take sides, but, I don’t want her there either. What should I do?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Well in reality what can you do its not like you can invite her right?

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1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

No, I don’t want to invite her. My sister doesn’t either, but, we’re both getting pressure from our family (mother, other sisters).

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Well I dont know your sister but diffrences aside she is family and this is a big event in your sisters life so maybe you guys should talk to each other about the pros and cons of inviting her you may not want to but what can she really do to harm things?

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martinmode offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

u cant do anytihng realy but just dont take sides and it wont ger worse, it is ur sisters big day and it can be mested up can it ? soo does ur other sister know she is not being invited ?

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Whilloh offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

She doesn’t know.

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1 year, 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

No, she doesn’t know. I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but, I don’t like her either. I just think it would be better without her. She always tries to make everything about her. Plus her kids are unruly. One cries, one steals and the other one is loud and always hurting other kids. I know I should put this all aside because she is family, but, how much do you take from family?

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amburgey7 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

OMG I can really relate to this. I cant stand one of my sisters and she tries to be hurtfull every chance she gets and cause drama. It’s my life now I make my own decision. I suggest you and your sisters do the same. Maybe she will ge the picture and clean up her act! I have no use for this behavior sisters or not! Families are not biological!!!!!!!!

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vinved0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Its funny that i actually have sisters, but really in reality I don’t. We may act like sisters but really we are like strangers. I always tell myself that its okay and that I shouldn’t let it bother me. I hate to say this but i wish I was never born.

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wise2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (10 months after post)

My sister and I have the same father, but different mothers. Im the youngest child period and shes the oldest. Shes getting married to a guy she met in Feb and the wedding is in sept. She says God told her to marry him. So I guess shes one of those fake christians. A few years back she slept with a married man. I cant stand a person who is contradicting themselves all the time. She acts like now that she has a man no one else matters, but when I got married she was aloways trying to get me to leave my husband. She gets on my nerves and I dont want anything to do with her, but she has kids and I love them dearly. What in the world am I supposed to do

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needadviceplz12 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

I need help because my sister is a theif and she is very dishonest. She likes to stay in her world of denial (which throws being honest with her out the window) and is extremely reactive and uncontrollable, and sometimes violent when things don’t go her way (most likely caused by drugs, alcohol, and/or history of horrible boyfriends influencing her). But now that I am getting married, I don’t want to invite her to my wedding because she is SO untrustworthy and dishonest! I think that she may be trying to get her way into my wedding to destroy it, steal, make a scene, or something worse… My Mom is also in a sad world of denial and thinks I have to invite her because she is my sister and told me that if I don’t invite my sister then she will bring her when she comes! What do I do?…

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rebeccasgg offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

媴my sister she iz ***** she a lame she get mad at me for no parent reson at all she hit me for know parent reson at all she just all out of contral.

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imnotstupi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

Oh this is so lolololllllllllllllll!!! funni hahah!

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imnotstupi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hahaha this is lolololllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!

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dogeeeedo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

rebeccasgg wrote:
♥my sister she iz ***** she a lame she get mad at me for no parent reson at all she hit me for know parent reson at all she just all out of contral.♥

This person needs to learn how to spell worse than a ************!!!!!

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dogeeeedo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

this person needs to learn to spell worse than a ************!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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jayan offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

We are six in the family, four sisters and two brothers.. i’m not close with my second sister..i don’t know why..i don’t like to see her..i want to like her, but if she’s in my side..i am starting to get angry..i’m a bad sister to her, if i see her my mood changes..i once made her cry..i don’t respect her in many people…maybe its because she didn’t treated me so nice when i am a little..we even fight many times..

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