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Are there really second chances when it comes to love?

I came from a heartbreaking marriage. I have a son. now I have someone new who says he loves me. I’m not divorced yet and I cant afford to have a lawyer for it.

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cdog2160 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

of course, there is always a second chance. if you love someone, don’t be afraid to take matters into your own hands, even if the legal system doesn’t work into the equation perfectly. If you and your marriage are done with, let it break away, and if the two of you mutually agree its best for you both to move on, let your life move on. be with teh one you love, and worry about the legal things later, as long as your personal relationship is clearly defined between the two of you and you allow those rules to define what you abide in.

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meova offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Provo, UT, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

There are second chances, but you should decide if you actually DON’T want to be with your husband and if you’re just rebounding onto a new guy. If you do want to get divorced, ask the court for help. They usually have programs to help people who really can’t afford it. Just don’t make decisions too soon or try to force yourself to love someone because you want to feel appreciated again.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Keep hope alive and believe anything is possible :D

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 hours, 13 minutes after post)

second chances are possible as long as both parties are willing to forgive, forget and grow from thier past together. otherwise you may set yourself up for dissapointment.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 hours, 14 minutes after post)

true

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Florie edited this post 3 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

is there really second chances when it comes to love?i came from a heart breaking marriage.I have a son.now i havesomeone new who says he loves me.Im not divorced yet and i cant afford to have a lawyer for it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 2 days ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

yea its possible and who knows its works but dont let anyone fool you its hard, take it day by day and slow live for you and what makes you happy, i know that every one forgets love is only what you make it so you call the shots, take care

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