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Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

♥Luna♥ wrote:
your a foster child, am i right?

yeah
http://help.com/post/174679-i-am-stuc…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

This is the same as your other post. Please keep to one post, it is confusing for people.

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shaggy-2dope_ic edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Who the hell changed the title of my post?!?!

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Soldier 4 you offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

its ok if your gay.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

what the hell is going on? why would you do something like that?
This post means alot to me, my parents were killed in a car accident when i was little…
WHo changed the title and who deleted what i wrote about my parents?!?
WHAT THE FUVK?!?!

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I just came in, so I don’t know for sure what your post was originally about, or how it relates to the title, so I’m shooting in the dark here.

I grew up in foster care, too. And while it’s certainly not a picnic, it can be much better than the alternatives.

And if you’re gay, you can talk to your social workers about being placed in a situation where you’ll be accepted and more comfortable.

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1 year, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i dunno but its mean and whoever did personelly from me go *** yourself!i didnt think u could go that!but anyway talk to me crying ,about anythingu feel!im very sorry for your loss but theres people out there who will always care for u even if u dont think it!

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I just realized we have a hacker.

Just calm down, and the mods or admins or whatever will sort it out soon.

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Nightowl edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Im Gay?

I seem to like d*****?

Commander Ikari edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

I fixed your post bro.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

There.

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Soldier 4 you offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

shaggy-2dope_ic —- hacker top left hand corner edited your post. Dont worry.

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Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

lol, we both got to it at the same time.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

He’s not a hacker! anyone can do that! He’s just a douche.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Nightowl wrote:
lol, we both got to it at the same time.

No, you got it first…

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Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Tony Lopez wrote:
shaggy-2dope_ic —- hacker top left hand corner edited your post. Dont worry.

Hes not a hacker. Any moron with a mouse and a keyboard can change a post.

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Soldier 4 you offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

O sorry didn’t know.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Nightowl wrote:
I fixed your post bro.

:’( ****
Thanx,

Btw ppl I am a girl ;)

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shaggy-2dope_ic edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

how do you get frinds i dont have any and i have a foot fetish?

Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I reported the post, a mod should be in soon to ban shaggy.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Guys.. who ever is doing it.. Please STOP!
:’( okay stop it! its not funny.. especially since its a post about someone who is dead and who i loved alot..

I AM ******* NEVER COMING BACK HERE!!!

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shaggy-2dope_ic edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Crying wrote:
Guys.. who ever is doing it.. Please STOP!
:’( okay stop it! its not funny.. especially since its a post about someone who is dead and who i loved alot..

I AM ******* NEVER COMING BACK HERE!!!

Don’t say that! It’s just one douche! Don’t let him ruin everything.

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Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Crying wrote:
Guys.. who ever is doing it.. Please STOP! :’( okay stop it! its not funny.. especially since its a post about someone who is dead and who i loved alot..I AM ******* NEVER COMING BACK HERE!!!

This isnt the norm. Usually this site has a lot of good people who are serious about helping people. Shaggy will be gone for good soon. He wont be able to make another account because they ban the computer the username comes from, not just the user name itself.

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

i wont to make out with poo like on 2girls1cup

Crying edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, i started something..

I often wander what its like to have parents. What its like to be loved for who and what your are, and not just for who your parents were, or which foster home you were placed in this time. Not for who you belonged to, or how sorry some one felt for you.
What its like to have that safety underneath you. Knowing that someone will love you forever, no matter what you do.

I wonder what it means to have a “mom” and a “dad”. Breakfast on Sundays. Moms and Dads day. Valentines day, Parents day at work, all those small things that many peo-ple take for granted… but I never know what was like.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Nightowl wrote:

Crying wrote:
Guys.. who ever is doing it.. Please STOP! :’( okay stop it! its not funny.. especially since its a post about someone who is dead and who i loved alot..I AM ******* NEVER COMING BACK HERE!!!

This isnt the norm. Usually this site has a lot of good people who are serious about helping people. Shaggy will be gone for good soon. He wont be able to make another account because they ban the computer the username comes from, not just the user name itself.

good ole IP ban.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

I’ll let my daughter tell you what it’s like to have parents:

Hey…having parents is nice most of the time I mean all people with parents wish they had someone elses parents but my parents aren’t that bad. I mean it’s not like the movies where everyone gets along and sits down to have dinner together and discuss how great everyone’s day has been.
But it’s still nice to have parents there to talk to when you need to.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

hmmm…. Seems she thinks the grass is always greener, too.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I’ve been reporting the posts. Just calm down ’till someone gets here to fix it.

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Crying offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

♥Luna♥ wrote:
can somone plz get in cotact with a mod and tell them whats going on I want to but i dont know exaclty how to do it…this has to stop and I MEAN NOW…who ever is changing this post is nothing more then some sencless ***hole. crying plz dnt get mad because of these people…dnt worry aboutt hem…worry aboutt he people who do care ..like me and dragon nightmare and commander and anyone else like that…dnt let others get toy ou plz…were good people here..trust me on that dnt leae…we can help u as best we can.

Thanx for your posts guys.
I think I will just head out.. Its the first time in 5 years I have spoke about my parents.. and it kinda hurt, cuz i wagely remember my dad… what just happened.. was just to much. Sorry but i cant deal with this right now..

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