girl help: I notice that men who think they are cool hang around beautiful girls and ignore other men like they are better than those men. - Help.com

I see this as really shallow, and exclusive… Being cool to me is being caring and intelligent and being respectful above all else. Not being exclusive and ignoring someone you think is “less cool” than you.

ima girl (for reference)and I honestly believe that those pathetic men are just 100% concentrating on the women and can’t see the other men. But, I promise you, the women notice that they are not smooth nor intelligent and really it disgusts us as much as it does you.

You see my friend that is called survival of the prettiest

lol.. i cant tell you how truely accurate I find that to be

hahaha yeah I know

relooking at your initial statement.. I dont know who you are trying to get the attention of.. the girls or those men?

Where do you see this going on?

That’s a very general statement.

Sorry, I didn’t realize. I sincerely apologize and I’ll try to be more careful in the future.

?? sincere??

no… my point is about how such men are weak. I am trying to get attention at those men. Why are they so focused on the woman? All they do is give her power. That is my point.

I was used in a game by a woman who pretended she liked me to make another man jealous. She didn’t care about me at all it turned out.

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no… my point is about how such men are weak. I am trying to get attention at those men. Why are they so focused on the woman? All they do is give her power. That is my point.

I think you want the attention of women, and the so called ‘cool guys’ get in the way. Had to read between the lines, but I hope I’m understanding correctly.

Most women don’t use one man to make another man jealous, so what you went through is just one unfortunate incident. We should learn from these things and move on.

We each have our individual list of characteristics that attract us to certain men or women. If a woman doesn’t show interest in you, I don’t think it’s because she thinks “men who think they are cool” are better than you. I think she doesn’t have any interest in you because you’re just not her type. There’s no guarantee that any woman that you’re attracted to you will feel the same way about you. Sorry, but there are just too many variables. Don’t let these “cool guys” get to you so much. You give them ‘power’ that they don’t deserve by doing that.