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So I sent this girl I like a message on facebook, and she never responded.

She was online and had to of seen it, because she responded to a bunch of other ones. Should I take this personally or should I try sending her another message? This isn’t the first message I’ve sent to her either. She’s responded to the other ones, but not this one, where I ask her if we can talk somewhere.

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MenosGrandeLatt offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

take it personally! she hates you…common dude its facebook just call her other wise ignore her for a while. Don’t worry about it.

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Anonymous edited this post 2 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

So I sent this girl I like a message on facebook, and she never responded. She was online and had to of seen it, because she responded to a bunch of other ones. Should I take this personally or should I try sending her another message?

southparkvc offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Just wait and see. She might respond to it later. Wait a few days.

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Anonymous edited this post 2 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

So I sent this girl I like a message on facebook, and she never responded. She was online and had to of seen it, because she responded to a bunch of other ones. Should I take this personally or should I try sending her another message? This isn’t the first message I’ve sent to her either. She’s responded to the other ones, but not this one, where I ask her if we can talk.

lil_Mouse6 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

well what was the message and do u tlk to her lots of what??

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retrospace18 offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Winston Salem, NC, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Im going with the….Its facebook, its not a big deal answer.

If you really want to know and you know she was up, just call her?

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Bastetrose Lover offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

take this personally, she may be contemplating her answer, but from what it sounds like you said, you got her WAAAYY too nervous. She could be scared off facebook for a few days. Just take your time and call her or ask her in person. don’t ask her on facebook.

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2 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 59 minutes after post)

All I said was “we’ll talk later, okay?”. How could that scare her off?

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Bastetrose Lover offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 24 minutes after post)

well above you said “but not this one, where I ask her if we can talk somewhere.” the ‘we can talk somewhere.’ would have been scary. what you just said now would say that she probably just didn’t see it. She probably saw comments above yours, but somehow didn’t see that one. I don’t think you should take that personally then.

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