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Distract yourself with something else such as TV, video games, cooking, reading etc.

I’m not sure there is anything more I can add except learn some self control and respect. Oh, and stop.

Self control! Until you learn some you will never respect yourself. And others won’t respect you either.

How old are you? This is reading as very juvenile.

Ok.

Well, in the short little life that I have lived so far, there are few minute important things that I’ve learned along the way. One on them with regards to the problem you have at hands is:

The only way to cure an addiction is to replace it with another addiction.

Be addicted in something else. A game. Pornography(not a very good idea). Watching shows. Whatever. You mentioned a girl; you can become addicted to that girl too. Its more fun than doing it solitaire.

All addictions are unhealthy, but its just a matter of preference. You need to have at least one to prevent the others from setting in.

Np.

get your self a chastity belt!
haha

Chop up some chilli’s and rub between hands. Wash hands and remember not to rub your eyes. If this won’t stop you you are a lost cause.

katelynxrose wrote:
get your self a chastity belt!
haha

haha I like that answer. XD

but seriously, You just need stop. You are addicted. Quiting this is gonna be just as hard as quitting smoking. But you have to do it if you want to get this girl. Try to find distractions, maybe another sport (an actual sport?). If you are hard, do your best to ignore it and do something else (I know that’ll be hard, but you must try your hardest!).

simone wrote:
Chop up some chilli’s and rub between hands. Wash hands and remember not to rub your eyes. If this won’t stop you you are a lost cause.

This could work, so go ahead and try it. But remember that this will work for SOME people, not everyone. So if it doesn’t work, don’t give up. This is gonna have to be mind over matter! If you have dedication to stopping, than you can stop. Just don’t give up and continue this sport. good luck.

If it doesn’t work you had better hope this girls a bit kinky to. Seriously though. If you do get together with this girl you will eventually slow down on your self loving. I promise.

simone wrote:
If it doesn’t work you had better hope this girls a bit kinky to. Seriously though. If you do get together with this girl you will eventually slow down on your self loving. I promise.

haha i agree. XD