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I used to fancy some guy.

I then found my boyfriend, and we’re happy together, etc etc. The “Some Guy” was our mutual friend. I even wrote a bizarre story about me, him, and some other of our friends… That stayed a secret, only my boyfriend knows. I keep getting hints that the “Some Guy” (SG) fancied me. I encouraged him, not seriously, but I do flirt with quite a lot of people. Only just now I found out he doesn’t like me in that way at all.
And I’m devastated.
Even if he did, I wouldn’t date him. But I’d be pleased. My self confidence is poor. I need to know what’s wrong with me.
I feel like burning the story… I just hurt in a strange place…. I feel like im going to cry. This is the first time someone i’ve liked doesnt like me back, and I do think i do “like” him, a bit….

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Dreamer-Eliewved offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 164 #
Cornsay, D8, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

just concentrate on your boyfriend you have now

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magic dust offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

yeh i know it’s hard babe

but you’ve got your b/f and he likes you very much… so concerte on what he has got and how much he likes you.. intead of worrying about the other guy

and anyway it’s his lost not yours

xx

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