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hey, i need some help in what 2 do, i really love my

girl friend but she has just got over her ex who she really really really loved, n i know if she got the chance 2 go out with him again i thk she would accept it, so i need advice, do i stay or do i go, i lk really like her and i dont want 2 leave her but if i feel i am just a tool 2 gt back at someone. i dont know what 2 think but i thk she does love me n i rly love her, but if she got the chance 2 go back, i thk she would :(

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nlyons162 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Lexington, VA, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

Tell her how you feel!

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luke.me offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

ahh you sure thats a good choice, i mean her best m8 told me this and she said dont tell ny1

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SweetLips~ offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Ask her straight out if she still has deep feelings for him and if she would leave you for him.

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luke.me offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

ok, thankz guys, so askin her sounds lk the best choice, ty :)

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purpleporsche1 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

I think you should ask her if she has feelings for him. I have been in her situation and always thought if he asked I would go back. It took me a lot of years to realise the person I remembered and wanted to go back to was actually not the real person at all. Then my ex did ask me back and I was with a guy I loved so much and in that moment I realised that I didn’t want to be with my ex.

You need to know where you stand and not to get in too deep if it never really is going to work

luke.me offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

ok yeah i think that 2, thankz :)

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littlenick offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Are you like the “emergency” boyfriend? If you are, you need to get out of dodge! That sucks.

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luke.me offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

i know yeah, i donno if i am, im gonna ask her n see, ill let u guys know how it goes

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smoogie. offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 246 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Don’t put yourself forward for being the rebound guy.

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luke.me offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

ook well i asked her, she asured me it’s real, a week l8r she tells me she cant bare going out with me and loving another guy so much so it’s over :(

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