girl help: Can anyone help…I have a girl on my mind…we are on a ‘break’ and I simply can not think objectively on the matter. - Help.com

Break=We dated for 18 months. The last 6 were particularly difficult in that a collision with my work atmosphere, my troubled sister, ….I shared regularly with her. perhaps/likely to the point of overbearing. A few months back, we broke-up after she lived with me for less than a month; then talked on the phone…got back together for a few weeks…talked on the phone again since then we have seen each other…perhaps three times and are now (my suggestion) are not contacting each other until another 30 days..unless I or she relay that it is over between us. She is not a talker and I talk too much…I felt as is I had told her some of my most inner thoughts yet I also felt as if I did not know who she was as she is very tight-lipped or just needed time to open-up (unsure). I am far from perfect and admit so..she fits (my perception is that she is wholly unaware of the degree of her insecurities) a similar bucket but I never heard a word from her that showed any sign that she truly knew herself and I will admit…I was more likely to ask her questions about her past as if I did not; I do not know if she would have divulged much at all.

Moo, I tell her how I am feeling (I love her) and she responds with nothing but a poker-face; “I am not sure” so you will just have to keep waitng…but feel free to call me anytime…yet prior to 30 agreement…called perhaps once to my 50 times. I send her a text, tell her I love her, am sorry for my contributions for our break-up yet get simple; ‘hope you had a good day’ in return…at best.

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