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I blow off my friends all the time…

I have a bunch of friends, and everytime they call me to hang out most of the time I make an excuse so I don’t have to go. I know I am terrible. I just… I see them enough at school and I want to have some alone time because I am normally playing soccer or doing my home work. Anyway, one of my friends who I don’t really like invited me over to her house for like 4 hours. I had just had a sleep over with my best friend, so I really didn’t feel like going. I told her I had to go family biking (which is true, but if I really wanted to go, my parents wouldn’t have cared) Anyway she sounded pissed off, and I feel kinda bad. So to make up for it I am going to have to invite her over for something sometime… I really don’t want to, but she is on my soccer team and I would rather she not hate me. I have blown her off 4 times in a row now (but in a nice way, like say I’m busy or something) but if one of your friends did that to you would you be pissed off?

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

they might eventually stop asking - and you’ll find yourself rather lonely

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Reverend Twitch offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

do you have anxiety?

i did/do that all the time, and well..thats what i have

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Any friend who is a true friend understands that you need your space and time alone. Don’t fret over this.

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Bellflower, CA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Hey, same situation here, except that I have generalized anxiety disorder. My acquaintance who invited me to many social events knew that I wasn’t too extroverted, however after I constantly kept rejecting his offers by making lame excuses he stopped asking me. So now I’m back to ’square one’ without anyone to hang out with.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

my friends dont get annoyed with me
they actually like me too much
my bestie had to go to therapy because she was addicted to our friendship.

i get annoyed with them lol

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

if they kept doing it, i would give up eventually. lets hope she hasnt got to that stage. friendship isnt just about hanging out with people.. you gotta work at it soemtimes. put the effort in. you never know, you might surprise yourself.

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vexed by you edited this post 3 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

I blow off my friends all the time…

I have a bunch of friends, and everytime they call me to hang out most of the time I make an excuse so I don’t have to go. I know I am terrible. I just… I see them enough at school and I want to have some alone time because I am normally playing soccer or doing my home work. Anyway, one of my friends who I don’t really like invited me over to her house for like 4 hours. I had just had a sleep over with my best friend, so I really didn’t feel like going. I told her I had to go family biking (which is true, but if I really wanted to go, my parents wouldn’t have cared) Anyway she sounded pissed off, and I feel kinda bad. So to make up for it I am going to have to invite her over for something sometime… I really don’t want to, but she is on my soccer team and I would rather she not hate me. I have blown her off 4 times in a row now (but in a nice way, like say I’m busy or something) but if one of your friends did that to you would you be pissed off?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

ahh look who comes back to play with us hahaha

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Dreamer-Eliewved edited this post 3 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

I blow on my friends penises all the time…

I have a bunch of friends, and everytime they call me to hang out most of the time I make an excuse so I don’t have to go. I know I am terrible. I just… I see them enough at school and I want to have some alone time because I am normally playing soccer or doing my home work. Anyway, one of my friends who I don’t really like invited me over to her house for like 4 hours. I had just had a sleep over with my best friend, so I really didn’t feel like going. I told her I had to go family biking (which is true, but if I really wanted to go, my parents wouldn’t have cared) Anyway she sounded pissed off, and I feel kinda bad. So to make up for it I am going to have to invite her over for something sometime… I really don’t want to, but she is on my soccer team and I would rather she not hate me. I have blown her off 4 times in a row now (but in a nice way, like say I’m busy or something) but if one of your friends did that to you would you be pissed off?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Is she that bad to hang out with? Is she trying to take up all your time? If not, then just try to see what you have in common and be passing friends (soccer pun intended). All of the people you hang with do not have to be best friends.

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