life help: i need a boyfriend, i miss having someone around to just be close with. - Help.com

try getting really dressed up and going out somewhere that your happy. laugh and have a good time with friends and see if cute guys dont come crawling. or you could be like me and have friends that tell the world you dont have a boyfriend. thats how i met my FRIEND!!! and as embarassing as it was it was worth it

I’ve got this friend who has always needed a boyfriend, if she wasn’t with someone she wasn’t happy and for the longest time I never understood. When she’d talk to me about it I told her the same thing, you need to be happy on your own first. And she tried she really did but eventually I came to see that she was happy when she knew someone needed her, and I don’t necesarily think you need a significant other for that. My suggestion: go volunteer, you’ll be surprised how much it helps to feel loved by people you may never see again, if only for that day you’re helping them. And if it’s not enough, someone new will come along.

Know how you feel, just try and meet new people and eventually one of them should ask you out and start a relationship.

I know what its like, not in the long run, but being alone after in a really serious relationship can really screw with your head. I can’t stand being alone either. Thats why when most/all of my relationships have ended I’ve always jumped right into the deep and in another one. I’ve left someone (my ex) in your shoes, alone after being in a really close relationship, things ended really badly and they’re having a really difficult time with it, he’s in my friends if you’d want to talk to him, or I’d be happy to be there too.

My advice in the short term would be to try and have a friend/friends over most/every night so you’re always busy and active. You can have a good old chat and laugh, and forget about everything in the past. Or if you join a group/activity its a great way to meet new people, and just have fun. And thats what life is all about.
I’ve found in the past that when I’m looking for new love it doesn’t come around that easily, but if i just put it to the back of my mind and don’t look specifically, it comes to you.

Hi, if you need someone to talk to let me know, I’ll be here, I hate to be alone also