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i’m so lonely, i really just want someone to love me.
i feel so unneeded, uncared for. i’m up late crying again, it just hurts so much. no one has loved me in over a year, am i really so repulsive? i just want a hug..the touch from someone who really cares. no one has to respond, i just want to have the satisfaction knowing someone will at least read this.
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Everyone has loveable qualities. I can tell from what you wrote that you are sensitive and caring. Are you getting yourself out there to meet someone to love you?
Awwww…. Hugs from me.
Now comb your hair, turn off the computer, and find someone.
Go to a movie. Go to a park. Go to a church. Volunteer somewhere. Find a hobby and join a group.
You’ll meet someone. :)
Alot of people will. and everyody will find true love at some point.
Trust me, just because you’re not in a romantic relationship doesn’t mean you’re unloved. It’s hard to realize how many people really care: if they’re not especially sensitive, they might not know they need to show you how much they care. Before anything else, you need to love and respect yourself. Your worth as a person has NOTHING to do with whether or not people like you.
I agree with what’s been posted — try going out of your way to just go out. If you feel too depressed to do that, it helps to spend time with your family. Your family’s going to love you no matter what, and it’s likely you’ll get some good advice.
i feel the exact same way. it’s almost as if i wrote this myself. you’re not alone, someone will care someday
i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.
Look. U will get the right person when it is in ur fate. U’ll get someone who will love u very much and will be ur partner. U just have to wait as I m Waiting. God made couples before our birth. So, I know that u’ll get one Sooon.
Best Of Luck :)
Mr. P wrote:
I love you.
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Problem solved. *walks away*
Very Well :))
It’s nice to think that your future mate is also, right now, somewhere, waiting for you. :)
heheh yes, Mr. P made me smile. must be a miracle worker. thank you everyone so much…i feel alot better already. some late nights it just gets so lonely and dark and i get really emotional.
i read it =]
Your not repuulsive at all
no pic but
if your this sensitive and kind, theres no repulsive about it
3 ily
*huggles*
Splendo wrote:
It’s nice to think that your future mate is also, right now, somewhere, waiting for you. :)
i’ve never thugoht of it that way, it’s probably the best news i’ve ever heard
Anonymous wrote:
i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.
Hey. U r like me. When I was in my highschool, I never had right frnds coz they were clever than I am. I was all alone. I m alone now. I dont have friends. I m on this site just because of this reason. So, U r not alone. We all are here for you :)
Anonymous wrote:
i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.
Sometimes you hit a dryspell before you meet other people like you. I was extremely lucky to make friends in highschool with people as interested in writing as I am; I’d gone all of middleschool alone and was expecting to be alone til college. The one boyfriend I’ve ever had was really shy; he’d follow me around at dances and I’d be too shy to go up to him. You have your whole life ahead of you; you’re gonna make it some day, don’t forget that.
thanks again all. so many comments..its touching, i usually come here to give help but when i really need it you all really come through for me. i’ll be sure to return the favor ^^ (and yes i’m revealing my identity because, well..i dont feel this needs to be anonymous.) 3
katlover1 wrote:
thanks again all. so many comments..its touching, i usually come here to give help but when i really need it you all really come through for me. i’ll be sure to return the favor ^^ (and yes i’m revealing my identity because, well..i dont feel this needs to be anonymous.) 3
U never have to be anonymous on this site. We all suffer from the same thing :)
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*Hug* ’sgonna be fine, just wait it out till they’re through with their frat days, or go for someone outside your school, they’re not all like that at that age.
::BIG SQUEEZING HUG that you can feel MILES AWAY!:: AWWW HONEY! Hugs hugs hugs and tons of hugs! I hope you feel better honey! ::4 more awsome hugs:: Okay, one more. ::gives one more hug to Anon:: Aw what the hell. :D ::CLINGS TO LEG:: There! You can take me with you and I can hug you anytime! :D!!! You are not repulsive, hugs are just hard to come by sometimes, dont be sad. Dont make me, I will SO go get you a joke. :D I know you want one. I can make you smile for a LONG time! lol!
::HUGS AGAIN!!:: So many hugs!! :D Oh yea, trust me. Hugs are Awsome!
Anytime sweety that you need to talk, just shout me okay? I would really like to talk with you. :D And I will give more hugs!
::MORE HUGS!!:: NYO! lol!
-huggless-
ly ;D
jus to cheer ya up again lyaxxxx
WashuChan wrote:
Anytime sweety that you need to talk, just shout me okay? I would really like to talk with you. :D And I will give more hugs!::MORE HUGS!!:: NYO! lol!
same here =]
::hugs Peter too:: aww! now your huggless +1!
i care, if that means anything to you
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