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i’m so lonely, i really just want someone to love me.

i feel so unneeded, uncared for. i’m up late crying again, it just hurts so much. no one has loved me in over a year, am i really so repulsive? i just want a hug..the touch from someone who really cares. no one has to respond, i just want to have the satisfaction knowing someone will at least read this.

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I read this

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Everyone has loveable qualities. I can tell from what you wrote that you are sensitive and caring. Are you getting yourself out there to meet someone to love you?

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 629 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

hockeymaniac500 wrote:
I read this

I also did.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Awwww…. Hugs from me.

Now comb your hair, turn off the computer, and find someone.

Go to a movie. Go to a park. Go to a church. Volunteer somewhere. Find a hobby and join a group.

You’ll meet someone. :)

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Alot of people will. and everyody will find true love at some point.

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Paradoxotaur offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Trust me, just because you’re not in a romantic relationship doesn’t mean you’re unloved. It’s hard to realize how many people really care: if they’re not especially sensitive, they might not know they need to show you how much they care. Before anything else, you need to love and respect yourself. Your worth as a person has NOTHING to do with whether or not people like you.

I agree with what’s been posted — try going out of your way to just go out. If you feel too depressed to do that, it helps to spend time with your family. Your family’s going to love you no matter what, and it’s likely you’ll get some good advice.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I know.
*virtual hug, and a reassuring hair stroke*

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i feel the exact same way. it’s almost as if i wrote this myself. you’re not alone, someone will care someday

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Mr. P offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I love you.
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Problem solved. *walks away*

Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 629 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Look. U will get the right person when it is in ur fate. U’ll get someone who will love u very much and will be ur partner. U just have to wait as I m Waiting. God made couples before our birth. So, I know that u’ll get one Sooon.

Best Of Luck :)

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 629 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Mr. P wrote:
I love you.
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Problem solved. *walks away*

Very Well :))

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

It’s nice to think that your future mate is also, right now, somewhere, waiting for you. :)

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

heheh yes, Mr. P made me smile. must be a miracle worker. thank you everyone so much…i feel alot better already. some late nights it just gets so lonely and dark and i get really emotional.

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peterdarkheaven66 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i read it =]
Your not repuulsive at all
no pic but
if your this sensitive and kind, theres no repulsive about it
3 ily
*huggles*

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Splendo wrote:
It’s nice to think that your future mate is also, right now, somewhere, waiting for you. :)

i’ve never thugoht of it that way, it’s probably the best news i’ve ever heard

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 629 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.

Hey. U r like me. When I was in my highschool, I never had right frnds coz they were clever than I am. I was all alone. I m alone now. I dont have friends. I m on this site just because of this reason. So, U r not alone. We all are here for you :)

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Paradoxotaur offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i’m trying to get out there to meet people. mostly i’ve met guys from my school (college) but they’re all just interested in drinking and parties and i’m not into that wild stuff. i’m a very shy person, its hard to go outside of my comfort bubble. thanks for reading guys…it makes me feel not so alone.

Sometimes you hit a dryspell before you meet other people like you. I was extremely lucky to make friends in highschool with people as interested in writing as I am; I’d gone all of middleschool alone and was expecting to be alone til college. The one boyfriend I’ve ever had was really shy; he’d follow me around at dances and I’d be too shy to go up to him. You have your whole life ahead of you; you’re gonna make it some day, don’t forget that.

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katlover1 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

thanks again all. so many comments..its touching, i usually come here to give help but when i really need it you all really come through for me. i’ll be sure to return the favor ^^ (and yes i’m revealing my identity because, well..i dont feel this needs to be anonymous.) 3

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 629 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

katlover1 wrote:
thanks again all. so many comments..its touching, i usually come here to give help but when i really need it you all really come through for me. i’ll be sure to return the favor ^^ (and yes i’m revealing my identity because, well..i dont feel this needs to be anonymous.) 3

U never have to be anonymous on this site. We all suffer from the same thing :)

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 39 minutes after post)

*Hug* ’sgonna be fine, just wait it out till they’re through with their frat days, or go for someone outside your school, they’re not all like that at that age.

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WashuChan offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 37 minutes after post)

::BIG SQUEEZING HUG that you can feel MILES AWAY!:: AWWW HONEY! Hugs hugs hugs and tons of hugs! I hope you feel better honey! ::4 more awsome hugs:: Okay, one more. ::gives one more hug to Anon:: Aw what the hell. :D ::CLINGS TO LEG:: There! You can take me with you and I can hug you anytime! :D!!! You are not repulsive, hugs are just hard to come by sometimes, dont be sad. Dont make me, I will SO go get you a joke. :D I know you want one. I can make you smile for a LONG time! lol!

::HUGS AGAIN!!:: So many hugs!! :D Oh yea, trust me. Hugs are Awsome!

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WashuChan offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Anytime sweety that you need to talk, just shout me okay? I would really like to talk with you. :D And I will give more hugs!

::MORE HUGS!!:: NYO! lol!

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peterdarkheaven66 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 35 minutes after post)

-huggless-
ly ;D
jus to cheer ya up again lyaxxxx

WashuChan wrote:
Anytime sweety that you need to talk, just shout me okay? I would really like to talk with you. :D And I will give more hugs!

::MORE HUGS!!:: NYO! lol!

same here =]

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WashuChan offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 9 minutes after post)

::hugs Peter too:: aww! now your huggless +1!

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антихрист offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 week after post)

i care, if that means anything to you

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