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I hate my brother so much!

!! He gets mad because I don’t know stuff. I’m so angry right now that I could just shooot him! Why doesn’t he understand that you shouldn’t get angry about that? Why!?

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quebec980 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

pardon, what are you on about? You ask for advice and you are expecting us to be what? A mind reader? Perhaps your brother thinks the same?

*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

You know, my brother does the same thing, and I’ve said I’ve hated him about a million times. But, I don’t/can’t hate him. He’s my brother. I know it’s hard to sometimes deal with them, but trust me I know. Just try and cooperate with each other, and help each other out. One thing tha tmy mom made me and my brother do was to sit down and write out things that we like about each other and things we don’t ( for example: i don’t like how my brother barges into my room) my mom took the list of things we don’t like about each other and told us to fix them. So I hope you and your brother work things out.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

u should be allowed to hate any of your family members! You can’t be required to love someone!

quebec980 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Actually, I thought Mary Chan has a valid way of sorting your problems out with your brother.

*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
u should be allowed to hate any of your family members! You can’t be required to love someone!

Why would you say that? Do you even know how strong the word hate is? I am sure your family wouldn’t appreciate it if you said that you hate them when I’m sure they do as much as provide you a home and food.

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*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Anon, How old are you?

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Sherooo 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

nah u dont hate him. u just dont like him. my brother does that all the time. best thing to do is ignore it and move on.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Mary-Chan is right. With family you love them unconditionally, though you may feel like you ‘hate’ him right now, its just because you’re anrgy. I’m like this with my little brother (im 18 he’s 14) and he comes out with these stupid phrases that annoy me, but after a while we are joking about stuff. So just give it time for you both to cool down then just try and move on. Anon, i think you have a very horrible way at looking at your family. Grow up.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

i’m sorry. i was drunk

*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

If I were you, and just saying don’t shoot me, but if you get drunk like this always.. you may say something you regret.

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killmab #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

if you hate youer brother anoye him then stells his turns on the computers and be really mean to him and called stuff like youer fat and stupid and hes gayhole spit in his drink without him looking LOLOLOLOLOLOL

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*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

killmab wrote:
if you hate youer brother anoye him then stells his turns on the computers and be really mean to him and called stuff like youer fat and stupid and hes gayhole spit in his drink without him looking LOLOLOLOLOLOL

What is wrong with you!>? that is soo mean… how heartless…

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Sir James 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Everyone gets angry at their siblings from time to time. Go for a walk or something and settle down some. Maybe try explaining things to him after you’re calmer. Family is the most important thing in the world, don’t let these kind of things nag at you.

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GT Dude 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 weeks after post)

Well, I have tried to walk or settling it down..but after more than a year I still loathe even to have a glance at him. I am not a kid, I am a working adult and he is too.

I tried different things, even moving to different state but when we tried to catch up, I dont really even want to talk to him…I cant even look at him. I like to move on, but my dad told me not to come to his funeral if I cant fix this, well I have tried in vain.

Help!

*!Mary-Chan!* 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 weeks after post)

Are you the person who posted this?

anyway,

You can always make the effort, and I have learned that if you be the bigger person, and try to make things work. Things can work out.

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