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…hopped on…

Hi honey! BTW, I wanted to tell you that Mate here means, you know. but yea, What I meant by what I said before, you know where she lives right? You okay with her mom?

Drop off little gifts, things she really likes and that have romantic meaning to them. Like if she likes roses, get her a red and white long stem and give it to her mom to give to her.

Little, TRINKETS!! thats the word… dang word.

Little trinkets of love! Is it to…. cheesy?

…crashed…

Send her love letters, to her house! Thats romantic. Hmm…. Talking with you Mate eh? is okay. no worries

I see. Then you must find something to do while you wait then, hm? What are your plans honey?

Conor, if I was there now I’d take you to the beach or something.
Go for a walk, just mind at zero.

We can tell you a thousand things now, but it wont make the feeling go away.
If there were words for that, we used them.

But try not to stay focused on her. There is more in life.
Just let it be for the moment.

You say yourself she is not the girl for all this romantic stuff.
So give her space.

::nods:: Im sorry honey, but I think it best as well…

…close your ears mom…

nothing more bizarre than women. really. odd species.

just let it go for now, there’s nothing you can do.
and that is difficult, i know that. we have all been there. really.

but you don’t know what she thinks. if she is trying to get you jealous, if she doesn’t care, is afraid you don’t love her. there are a 1000 options why she acts like she does. and you won’t figure it out why.

and the writing seems like a good plan. i should write more as well.
distract yourself for a while and see how things develop.

best thing i can say for now.

You have fun with you mate then, okay honey? Just keep your mind off of her for the moment.

i want a writers bloke =)

perhaps you have a writers block :P

maybe we can make a deal here, as i struggle with my writing too.
perhaps we can help each other out…

Just look around for insparation. It comes along pretty fast if its the write, er right stuff. :D

conor_312 wrote:
i think i can think of something cause he is just waking up now so

???

ehh? Did you have a sleep over?

hahaha oooh.

im soooo confused. Whats the book about honey?

awwwwsooomme! I wanna read it when your done okay?

You see, you allready have a more concrete storyline than i have in my book.

You allready know how it’s gonna end? I have no clue still with my story…

im trying to write… it doesnt work well… im a picture gal.

well, can we in any way help you out?

I still wanna read it when its done. nyaaa! Cant change my mind. Im a woman remember. ODD SPICIES!

I think we need to make a deal conor.

I reveal my storyline to you and you too me.
And we go help each other.

And mom can bake cookies in the meantime. :P

heyyy!!! ::climbs in her tree and shakes her tail:: nya! cookies my tail! lol. But I will let you boys …. bond I guess. night honey.

how do you mean?

ok. cool that he wants to help you out!

well. i am working on 2 stories actually.

1 is about three generations of men (grandfather, father and son) set 20 years from now and there is a freaky twist in it.

the other one is about a village and a girl growing up there. there is a lot more too it, but I ain’t telling that here.

let me shout you.

…sees the world wondering where everybody suddenly went…

Hey conor how are you feeling? Only just got round to reading the post because I have been working. I can’t wait to hear more about your story. I too find writing is great to get your mind off different things. Apart from that it is also a great way to express your creativity. Hope you are feeling better and always remember that you have got people here to talk to.

Good Morning Conor dear! Hope you are feeling good today! Did you have fun with your mate?

hey kiddo. =)

did you try to talk too her or only see her?

y’know.

just let her be for a while. i know that is difficult, but not much you can do at the moment.

except for writing. how’s that going?

ok, you’re fast.

how big are your chapters?

you mean the new ones are going to get bigger or you’re gonna add more to the old ones?

i write in the same way most of the time.

though today i am stuck in photoshop.

name comes by itself.

i only have the name for 1 of the 2 i am writing.

I need your opinion. can you have a look at my profile? want to know what you think of that avatar.

thank you. made it for tony.

I thought you might be my next photoshop victim… =)

so, mail me a picture. that was kinda the hint… :P

okies. any special wishes?

okies. let me get creative than.

not sure if i get it done today though.

so, what are your plans for this evening?

what kind of club is it? and are you old enough? :P

ok. than you may. =)

i have to check of course as being a proper parent…

see ya chap!

Ok, mate.

This is not a question for once.

YOU ARE GOING TO SET YOUR MIND TO SOMETHING ELSE!

I know it is hard. I know you care an awful lot about her. But there is no use at this moment.

…mom don’t read along now…

Girls are possibly the most unexplainable species around, so don’t even try at this moment. They are cool, don’t get me wrong. But please, for your own sake, give it a rest.

Focus on something else. Go do something fun, chat, whatever. But not about Mel now.
You are making yourself crazy and there is no need for that.

Giving up and letting go of it are two different things.

If you go sporting, make sure you eat well.
No food + physical action = no good combo.

proud of your mom! =)

hows the eating going anyway?

on a second note… you did blackmail your mother a bit, didn’t you? :P

how do you feel about eating again?

see. slowly you are making improvement again.

proud of you me son. =)

just give it some time and you’ll be just as wicked as your dad. =)

so, what’s the plan for today?

same like me, though i am writing for work…

yours is more fun.

y’know, you could say: oh i am sorry for you that you have to work while i have a holiday… :P

so, you currently had any hopes on getting a raise?

well, than nothing would become something.

0 + 1 = 1

but i am not even considering it at the moment.

pft.

yes. i am very mean. funky av you have there? who made that for you?

okies.

As Conor said I allready spoke with him.

It went wrong, however Conor did realise that instantly and did speak about it instantly.

That are good things.

He made 10 steps forward and 1 back now. Still something to be proud of.

And Conor is just going to continue from step 9 again.

We’re still proud of you, kiddo. Trust me on that one. =)

What upset you Conor . An apology is not needed but a bit of understanding of what went wrong. Need to talk?

Wow honey everything went black eh! When you start to feel overwhelmed Conor come and talk to us I will try and teach you how to put things into perspective.

-Conor- Dreams Cant wrote:
i dont like that i did it and i never want to do it aagain :’(

and because of that you are going to get through it and we are going to support you.

Have you managed to clean it up. How deep is it. Should you go to the hospital and get it stiched or can you just superglue it.

It dosen’t sound like you have cut the muscle so it’s not too deep. Do you have any super glue in the house. It will sting but if you pour a little into the wound and press corners together it will stop the bleeding instantly and help the healing process. Super glue was invented in the Vietnam war for field treage.

Got to get off now cooking supper. Speak later Conor.XXXAunty

Hey Conor. Don’t get too downhearted. It’s normal for many people to break under the pressure. The important thing is to not let this hold you back from progressing. You have been doing well so far and like miskat said, this is just 1 step back compared to the 9 steps forward that you have made.

Just make sure that the wound is cleaned up well and bandaged up. If it is still bleeding pretty badly in a few days, then you may want to consider seeing a doctor just to check or try out what simone said.
In the future if it is getting too tough for you, just relax and try to do something to take your mind off things. Maybe when you haven’t got to study or work.

Remember that we are here for you :)

Oh honey Im so sorry I wasnt here! ::hugs Conor:: I hope your okay!