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i hate it when im going in to the maternity ward and

all eyes are looking me up and down, and they all give me the look of disappointment or when i get on a bus they ask how long i have left. Then have the cheek to call me a stupid girl and stated i should of used percaution. I just want to say just because im pregnant at the age of 20 dosent make me a bad person, theres a lot more pregnancy’s who are even younger and they have proven to others there the best mum they can be for there child its not age what makes u a good mum, its common sense, love, support a healthy enviroment for that child… i will be a good mum so i wish for them people who take judgement look at them selfs cause if ur a parent your self u no what ever age you maybe u can be a good parent…. ah made me so angry…. im a good decent hard working mum to be who is in a healthy relationship….

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els offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
San Diego, CA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Wow! ‘d like to say I can’t believe people would outwardly make those remarks to you but these days they really think it’s acceptable to insult someone in public. You sound like you are doing a good job of standing tall and looking down your nose at them so keep it up. I had a few friends who got pregnant young and they are great mothers. I also know a few friends whose ‘happily’ married parents who had them in their 20’s or 30’s really, really screwed their kids up so age doesn’t always count for everything.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (47 minutes after post)

I’m jealous. If at twenty you look like a teenager (which is maybe why they seem so shocked) just imagine how stunning you will look at 30 ! and 40! Relish the attention and tell yourself it’s just because you have such youthful looks.

You’re happy .. you’re stable… that’s what counts.

Try not to be sensitive when others are insensitive.

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rach21 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 hours, 31 minutes after post)

My friend is only 18 and about to have a baby in a somewhat unstable relationship. But i love her to death and i know everyone supports her. People shouldn’t be asking you questions about your personal life if they don’t know you. You are going to do fine and there’s always going to be rude people but just brush them off, they don’t matter to you anyway.

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