friends help: My boyfriend is very ugly i am embarrased to tell my friends i am with him ! - Help.com

then you dont really like him

thanks

r u stunningly beautiful? or just have standards that are unrealistic.

my boyfriend is ugly too. idc about looks that much…but i didnt think that a human could get this ugly. he looks uglier than a gorilla.

I think you aren’t love him,,,,find new one

my boyfriend is ugly too. idc about looks that much…but i didnt think that a human could get this ugly. he looks uglier than a gorilla.

Lol lmao heh!

shallow

I have an ugly boyfriend too n it bothers me sometimes. Especially cause he is 13 years older than me. I like being around his friends but no so much mine as i am afraid what they will thing. He is very sweet. We have been together 1.5 years. He has asked me to move in with him. I said yes. Am i making a mistake?

all u guyz sux!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My boyfriend is ugly too, actually He’s fat like an elephant or even fatter. I know it’s shallow to think like that, but, unfortunately, I have beautiful appearance and used to be a model. All my friends and relatives are against our relationship. He’s kind and sweet and I like him a lot, so I don’t care of what they think and say about us, btw Beauty and the Beast was my fav cartoon

I think my boyfriend is hot and cute and everything but all my friends keep going like “EWW!!” whenever I mention his name. It’s embarrassing and this happened with my past boyfriends. I know I should go my own way (and you should too), but somehow, those insults about him from my friends manipulates me and makes me depressed. In the end, I end up breaking up with them. But this time, I’m not gonna give f**k about what they say about my boyfriend. They better deal with it because he makes my heart beat like crazy :)

i have the same problem but idc!

ur shallow its wats on the inside not outside

lol i love how everyone is calling you shallow yet they would all probably ask the same in your situation.

Beauty is relative to each person, but if you don’t find your boyfriend attractive yet enjoy his company maybe you should reconsider either; your relationship or you view of beauty

BTW it doesn’t matter what other people think at the end of the day its your decision and you will have to live with it.

my boyfriend is ugly but i really dont give to flying ***** because i love him alot hes sweet an he cares so much about me im a model and i can care less what people think i could do better everyone tells me but really i cant hes the love of my life i can b myself in front of him he knows everythaing about me an i know everythaing about him im rich hes pore im pretty hes not do i give a **** NOPE so i guess looks dont matter itz on the inside that counts u cant just love someone for there looks :)

if you love him, pay for him to get plastic surgery. then no one can talk smack?

my boyfriend isnt the prettiest face to look at either. But you know what? i love him so much and i will never leave him for his appearance. Yeah ok i paused before telling my friends we were going out but i regret that. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and he always makes me smile. i get embaressed A LOT by these people that have the perfect relationship (like barbie and ken) and i get jealous. But i know that its thier loss. Cuz they are jerks and there relation ships last a month tops. I am going into highschool soon. I know that sounds young but plz dont make the mistakes i did. beauty and the beast are jealous.

hello! My boyfriend is wayyy ugly too, but he is nice and has a heart…I’m embarressed to be arnd him in public but wil spend time with him behind closed doors..I’m not in love with him but he tells me he loves me all the time…he is getting fed up with me being secretive and me not wanting to meet my family or go places with him….I dnt know how I let it go this far….like 2yrs..lol

.okay well.. Everyones kinda telling there story so why not tell mine :D …. Okay so im currently dating this guy..hes overweight and he isent the eye turner. Hes 16 nd im 14, when he approched me,i was with my friends.they were laughing and giggling about his weight…but really i dident even care. he was a gentalmen and he seemed super sweet and super caring. all my friends think im retarted for even talking to him,but there wrong..looks have NOTHING to do with anything..well.. I mean yeah it is nice to have a nice face to look at but real beauty is skin deep. I took a chance and wow he wept me off my feet..we’ve been going out or 7 months now and i am in love with him and eveything about him.. Hes always afraid hes gunna loose me to some “hot” as he puts it.. Guy. But i just explain to him how much i love him and no one can top that. And im not afraid to tell anyone either. Just look deeper within him or her.. Pass the looks. Its so much easier and helps so much more in life.

I love my new boyfriend. He’s uglyish but he’s so nice to me. His dad just died and I felt what he felt :( true love has nout to do with your body or face it’s only what’s inside that counts :D

I’m also in ur situation. When he laughs, I look at him and smh. All my friends tell me he’s not my type. He’s tall, skinney, and kinda dorky. His smile turns me off (as does many other things), he has little man boobs, nasty feet, but yet i stay….and stayy….almost 10 years now…i’ve stayed. BUT the whole time NEVER being attracted to him, but love him cuz he’s my best friend and he’s such a good person on the inside (plus he spoils me like crazy)! SO I really don’t have good advice for you. I’m not over the fact that i am not sexually or physically attracted to him, but i’m still sticking in there. I’m in my late (very late) 20’s boohoo.

I can relate with you guys. I’m dating w/ a guy who’s not physiically ideal to me, and is awkwardly physically undesirable for me.. First time i saw him, I said to myself “NEVER, 100%no chance” coz he’s totally not my type physically, his face.

But as we became friends, and he’s courting me.. I find myself needing his love, his super care, his super understanding, sweet, he treats me so kind ..and these things I never find all to my previous handsome boyfreinds. And so I gave ourselves now a chance to be boyfreind and girlfriend and yes I enjoy our romance..feels so good

But the prob is that I feel so embarrasssed going out with him. I even refrain him from holding my hands or get so near to me in public coz I dont want people to get it that we’re “on”. I try to be compassionate and reason it out that I should overlook his physique,,but I can’t help it I just can’t stand it.. I love him because of his inside self but I just’ can accept his physique… Now I am also bothereed and feel so bad and so confuse too…I think I should stop this selfishness and let him go to find the woman who will accept wholeheartedly his whole self.

Erm my friends think my new boy is ugly and say I can do better but his a great guy who I find handsome **** e

I know how you feel. Last semester I met my boyfriend in history class. The first thing I thought about him was wow I can’t believe someone could be this ugly. Anyways, he shocked me because the guy is brilliant and knew so much of about history. Well after some time, we stared to date. He is a great guy and he cares so much…and I thought I could see past the exterior..but it isn’t fair… I mean I know he’s physically attracted to me…then why shouldn’t I be with someone I find appealing…

Who cares, beauty is on the inside that matters the most. Guys are the really shallow ones not us girls they have no consideration for our feelings whatsoever lol

Ha sucks for you. My boyfriend is hot and he has a huge ****.

You’re not shallow. I know people say looks don’t matter but they do. Everyone cares about the way they look. That’s why girls wear makeup. I’m actually going through the same thing right now. I’m 15 and have this friend who is 18. I’ve known him for about a year now and just went through a lot of heartbreak with my last bf…I won’t go into it. But Kyle (the friend) is helping me through all of this and is so sweet. He wants to go out with me to “make me feel better” and “get my mind off of things” and I want to go out with him so bad because he is so sweet and he makes me feel beautiful and just forget about everything for a while. But the thing is he is SUPER UGLY. I know everyone would make fun of us and none of my friends would want to hang out with us anymore. Idk…he’s just so sweet. When he found out about my breakup he said “Well it’s his loss, any guy would be stupid not to date you…you’re beautiful, you have gorgeous eyes and everything about you is absolutely perfect in every way”. I need advice too lol.

well its not that your shallow cause let me tell you im having the same problem its how the world sees you,the image they put on everybody, the image everybody tries so hard to be. you have to adapt a care free attitude that you dont give a **** about what people think, its hard i will admit but if you want to say true to yourself in the long run, trust me this is the way to go.

i dated my cousins husbands brother. at first wasnt sure if i fancied him but i thought we could get along. went on holiday then carried on seeing eachother a couple of months stayed at his house some nights. i never felt passionate towards him like i did with my ex. overtime i hated him touching me and kissing me or cuddling at night (im naturally very affectionate with my boyfriends love cuddling and kissing) - just not with him. would look at his features and body and think ee ugly. still makes me cringe that i slept with him, hated his hair style and his personality boring. i eventually went on a date with a good looking lad and fell head over heels in love bery passionate in every way loved kissing and cuddling and holding hands i looked at this man and though my god you are beautifully handsome in every way possible, he is gorgeous to me. it annoys me that that ugli guy still plays on my mind and im scared hes going to try make something happen if we ever meet again through relatives. i simply have to find my man attractive there has to be a spark there for me. does anyone think i should stop worrying that the ugly lad will try and creep into my life one day ?

I’m deeply in love with my boyfriend.. Love him to death, I find him incredibly attractive, everything about him is sexy.. Turns me on and everything, just one problem.. My mom thinks he’s ugly, wich is a HUGE deal for me because I haven’t told her he’s my boyfriend yet and she’s criticizing his looks.. He’s 16 and I’m 15, I just don’t think it’s right because now I’m afraid of telling her that he’s my boyfriend be cause I know what she’ll say.. -.- I am the type of girl that if people talk about my current boyfriend (as in saying “he’s too ugly for you”) I automatically dump him, but for some reason.. I won’t dump this guy because I LOVE HIM! At this point I don’t care what people say about him, me and my friend stopped talking because he was her ex, and I actually didn’t know when we started dating, he’s really sweet an we have soo much in common, and he’s hot.. Like what else can I ask for?.. My mom is the problem, but I really don’t take it serious because she even says Justin Bieber is ugly.. According to like 27million people he is not, …so I think my mom is the one with the ugly taste. Everyone has their own opinions, if you are deeply in love with your boyfriend don’t listen or care about what people are saying! People will always talk even if you brake up with him.. Losing a good guy ain’t worth it over people with high standards that are probably out of this world. Good Luck

-Morgan(:

One should be with someone who he finds attractive and get exactly the same back from his bf/gf. I know some people lower their standards:

ugly for knowing that the beautiful one is with them for their care(but if they heard from their partner what they think it would hurt them for sure, and definitely sense that even without it being said)

and also those who are not the great looks are with those good looking because they love their looks ,usually spoil them.

As for myself, once someone good looking told me about what I should improve to look better… well I don’t need friend nor boyfriend like this, so I was glad to move on and let him to find his perfect match.

Is the beautiful person not a bit of a user of great care from ugly one, and the ugly one great carer because the can sense their ’shortcoming’? especially if the good looking one does not want to show up together in public?

I’m also in the same situation..my ex bfs were cute, the guy I’m datin now is supper tall n ugly and such a nerd boring personality. But I love that he’s so smart and he’s rich and spoils me and he’s so sweet. When I look at his picture I go eeewwww u’re so ugly, his smile turns me off and everything about him. I can’t be seen in public with him. I feel that I’ll hurt him in the end. I’m confused coz he’s so sweet and that’s what I want, but he’s soooo not my type.

I met this guy and he’s 7 years older than me. He’s really is a wise guy. I know that he’s a really good man. He is really thoughtful and considerate. I can’t stop having thoughts about him everyday. I think that I love him, but I hate that I find him really unattractive. It’s immature, I know. lol yeah i’m such a shameful *****, right? “if you truly love him then you wouldn’t care about his appearance.” I know, I know. Oh, and I don’t care if my friends or family or anyone else finds the man I love unattractive. I won’t let their thoughts change my mind, but when I find him REALLY ugly myself…it does bother me. I hate myself for thinking like that. What should I do?

Its dumb to be with someone your supposed to love for despite their looks. You can not find him that attractive butvto be his girlfriend and call him ugly is judt horrible. If you are goingvto say things like thst about your guyvthen you dont deserve him
How about breaking up with him instead of putting him through this stuff. If you are in a relationship with someone then you shouldnt be embarrassed to show them to someone. You should be showing them off to the world.

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humans are deep creatures. they choose partners depending on factors other tham just looks and smell. act like a human.

Shallow B**** i hope you never get married or have kids or even date again. i feel sorry for every dude that has to date someone as shallow as you b****

@morgansmith : what u just said was pretty shallow !! so I would think twice on whose the ***** these girls aren’t saying there husband there sayin there boyfriends! no ties yet!! I am going thru the same . and I’m nt shallow I know exactly how I want to be treated! my boyfriend now spoils the f*** out of me! the dude bought me a effin puppy like come on. nd he’s nice nd sweet . but he’s f******. ugly nd I mean ugly nd im pretty as **** . by I’m with him because he appreciates me . nd I like that . nd please if your bf was ugly . u would say the same thing . looks don’t matter ! he’s ficking incredibly UGLYY!!!’

oh wow really …to me does matter how he look like because you really love him
that how god created people