life help: I’m so lost in life- I’m 14 & just feel so different - Help.com

well… i have to congratulate you… you are officially a teenager… honestly… we all go through those times… honestly… it’s your life… your decisions… it’ll all work out… all you have to do… is give it time… i’m sorry if this didn’t seem helpful… but trust me…

I am 14 too!!! I am also male and have had these same feelings, we should talk at some point, do u have and aim screen name??? There are people out there like you, you just have to look very hard to find them, and then once you do, they’ll likely break your heart, or at least in my case….

I felt just like you when I was teenager(I officialy left that era a year ago). The only advice there really is just calm down. You’re fourteen, you have many years left on this earth and they’ll just be **** if you spend all of your time worrying. You can’t control everything around you, only you. You will not be cool with yourself until you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself. There’s no secret, it’s so simple it’s coplicated

im 14 and i use to sit on my computer all the time doing nothing but playing video games and s**t but now im planning on join AirForce Pararescue, i get to jump out of planes and save ppl for money. doing things i love. your parents shouldnt tell u what to become of your self. You should do wat u want to do. I got alot of “girlfriends” but none of them want to go out with me ***that i kno of >>*** so pretty much theres this girl now and im goin out with her on friday. i turned it all around and so can u!

posted anonymous i dont care tho so this is me –

How to find who you are again?? Very difficult. I wish I could help but as soon as I find myself Ill let you know….

Thanks :] Feeling a bit lost atm, hoping for some words of wisdom to help.

i know how you feel about feeling different from others and feeling like youre living in disguise. i know how you feel. i feel like that often too. i get that feeling like im alone in a room full of people all day.

well i say write it in a letter to tell ur parents

OMG. I WISH I COULD MEET YOU! I am 14 and I have the exact same problem!!!! The exact! There is nothing different between what you said and what goes on in my life. Im not really over weight. But for my age. I am bigger than all my friends which makes me seem over weight…My dad and my mom are always telling me how they want me to be a lawyer or a doctor…But I HATE blood and I HATE arguing with ppl… Idk but as I grow up I am slowly over coming all of that. ppl tell me what I have is just baby fat. Because I lost a lot of weight..I went down 4 dress sizes…But I cant tell. Everyone else can. Trust me. Everything you are feeling. You will overcome. Me and you both. My fear of dieing is in a house fire. When I was in 4th grade. My familys home caught on fire in the middle of the night while everyone was sleep. And luckily I wke up to go pee.(haha) And I noticed the bed was smoking. And I got everyone up and saved the whoole family. I felt so proud of myself…But then I was crying. and idk. Trust me. Everything will be fine.

Oh wait..I just now reaized that you are a boy…Well anything i said that had to do with females…Scratch it out…

Interested In Talking ^^? i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>, Thanks For The Help Too.

Mhm, Maybe
Tbf, I Think Weight Can Be Off-Putting, It Would Be For Me Past A Certain Extent.
Only A Few People Have/Will Look Past That.
& Im Not Made Fun Of, But The 1st Insult (I Get Annoyed Easily At Times & Argue) Used Will Be Fat ******* Or Pregnant Boy, Unfortunately, So..