life help: I keep thinking my mum won’t live a long life and my dad is dead.

spiritedsoul

I keep thinking my mum won’t live a long life and my dad is dead.

I don’t feel I have much and find it difficult to be self dependant. its strange because felt like how I do a bit like how I did before dad died. its almost 2 years since he passed away, which was 22nd july 06

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Chameleon 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

First of all, how old are you if I may ask? I worry about my parents passing too and I’m 44. I think all kids worry about it - no matter what their age.

spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

im 21
my dad died wen i was 19

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I was wondering when a georgeous girl was going to show up today! Hi spirited! How are you, baby?

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spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

concerned bout my mothers health.

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spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

im scared of potentially experiencing more downfalls in life

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Well, I’ll say a prayer for her and for you, OK?

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spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

thanks :)

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Chameleon 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Well spirited, I also worry obsessively about my husband dying. But worrying doesn’t do anything. Just try to enjoy your loved ones all you can while they’re alive. It’s all you can do. And make sure they know every day that you love them.

spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

true worrying doesn;t do anything. i think because every year crap happens in my life, i expect more to come. like 11 years to 16 bullying and depression, 17 low self esteem and failing course, 18 mental health problems because of self esteem issues, at 19 lost dad and was r*p*d a half a year later and that happened last year. this year i just want one year where things don;t go wrong. im scared things will still go downhill. nothing seems to go up very well.

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spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

thanks renegade

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tmpy~is~back 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Honey, my heart goes out to you and yours. *hugs* True worrying doesn’t do much good for anything, but on the other hand, maybe you could take that worry and do just as chameleon said, cherish and spend all the time you can w/ those you love. make everyday lived like the last day of YOUR life. Your life will continue, it will have its ups and downs but you WILL get through them all. Look at you right now, you’re 21, you’re alive, you have those around you now who love you and honey, you got through, *in my opinion* the HARDEST thing for any woman to go through and survived. Not without its everyday problems but you did it! You have a lot of strength and spirit in your soul, spiritedsoul, your name precedes you! Take that inner spirit and soar! We are all here if you want to talk about anything. *hugs*:D

WHATABIGNICKNAM 2 #
GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

try self defence lessons they helped me to boast self confidence and to protect myself and its fun as well it keeps you fit ask your mum to join as well and have a laugh

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (57 minutes after post)

WHATABIGNICKNAM wrote:
try self defence lessons they helped me to boast self confidence and to protect myself and its fun as well it keeps you fit ask your mum to join as well and have a laugh

that’s a great idea too hun, but only if mom can do it…:D

spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

thanks temptrss :)
i have been taking martial arts classes, did taekwondo but thats not very self defensive. done some aikido but find it really hard to learn.
my mum wudn;t be able to do self defense, she gets tired quickly.

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tmpy~is~back 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

what about just karate? it can loosen you up, keep you fit, and it is much easier to learn and keep up with? just a suggestion :D and you’re welcome hun *hugs*

spiritedsoul 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

karate? hmmm
interesting. its confusing doing a third martial art.
aikido was good, it was just really hard to learn,

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

also, atm im recovering from an operation.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 51 minutes after post)

oh well definitely wait till you are healed. :D we don’t want you to hurt yourself further.

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