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The best thing is to trust him… I know its hard but if u doubt him or start sneaking around it wont help at all… If it comes to it, go directly to her and explain how u feel and that u are uncomfortable with it… By her reaction u should know exactly what her motives are.. If she reacts in an apologetic way just thank her for being like this and maybe try and be friends with her from there.. If she gets all psycho about it u know what she is after but at least u will know how far she is going to go with it.. If she has any common decency she will just give up and cop on after u speak to her

Seems like they are either really really close friends or are trying to have an affair behind your back. Still you should trust him throughout

IT can literally make you very crazy and paranoid to an extent of ruining further relationships though… Alkways remember it has nothing to do with u.. Im sure u are a wondeful person and ur boyfriend wouldnt be with u if he didnt feel that way.. but sometimes bad stuff happens to good people and sometimes because of mean girls but u will be fine… Always remember u are worth so much to many ppl regardless of what one silly girl does

a few months ago. she tryed coming on to me and then ran off to my bf and tryed to break us up. before that i tryed to be friends with her even told her about things that i wanted to buy him. next thing i know he has all the things that i wanted to buy him. she used to send him messages on facebook telling him things like he is such a great guy and the she would do anything to be with him etc.

oh my god! In that case he needs a good kick up the ***! lol He should have more respect for u and he ujst know what this is doing to u! Tell him how its making u feel and if the crappy flirting and cheeky msgs dont stop u will leave him.. at the end of the day the relationship wont last without respect and its his time to show u whether or not he has it for u and ur feelings!

My advice is to talk to her. Sit down over coffee of brunch, and tell her that U don’t like hetaking care of Ur man. Let her knwo that U are more than capable of taking care of him and U by Urself, and to let her know Ur not saying this cause Ur jealous, Ur telling her this cause she annoys U… Tell her, “Thanks for all U’ve done for My Man in the past but I can handle it from here!” than make sure U start if Ur not doing it already.
Stuff like that pisses me off too, but sometimes the girl has a fantacy about things or men she can’t have and starts to idolize them… Now most men are ok with that ause it means to them that they have th ebest of 2 worlds. A woman who loves them (you) and a maid (her). He may not appreciate your interfearance with this world but he’ll get it if he’s truely Ur man.
I know, this happened to me once, I felt threatened so I but an end to it quickly, when my man made a comment about her lack of attention I told him, she has her own life to take care.
remember this little hint. When U confront a Man about anything U think he’s doing, if he gets mad, there’s a 95% chance he’s doing it. If he just srugs or doesn’t seem to care, then Ur safe, he’s not doing what U may think he is. It’s worked for me for many years.

u shud talk to HIM not HER. dont give her SO MUCH IMPORTANCE. so even when u DO talk to him, just tell him tht u trust him 100% completely and truly- and THATS IT. do NOTHING further. dont even acknowledge her, give her importance, think theyre close or imply that to him. be there more often, do more stuff infront of her. be implicit about these things. and WHENEVER ure around him and shes there, make him feel good. and be casual with her, not too friendly not too mean.
tell him tht u trust him more often.
and always remember, hes with u for a reason. and tht reason is cuz ure not her. simple.

ps- even if he does cheat on u, then good riddance. u dont want an over-sexed loser anyway. but until he doesnt break it, he deserves ur trust 100%.