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i understand you love him, but you really dont want to spend the rest of your life wondering what you could have been/achieved. i’m not saying do anything dramatic, however it might be worth verbalising the exact thoughts you posted above to him directly, and then make a judgement fom there? :)

Why not get yourself a little job instead of trying for a baby. You will keep your self respect and eventually he will learn to trust you. Divorce is far too easy now -a- days. Try working at your marriage

Ya i agree, divorce is too easy now. simone is right. Why not try to see through his perspective. May be he love you more and wants see you all the time. May be he is scared that he loose you also, like he lost his parents. May be that,

If you find an answer to that, let me know, I’ve been dealing with this issue for 15 years. Except I did have the baby (a year ago). and it has changed, now I’m trying forthe baby’s sake. It’s hard but only you can decide what’s right for you and what you want to put up with. Good luck!

Have you tried getting him to meet some people? My husband was very and i mean very jelous and pocessive. He didnt even like me to go out with my mom let alone my friends. I didnt want to lose him and i wanted to have my freedom at the same time. So i introduced him to some people i knew from work who i thought be have the same interests as my husband and now three years later… i have trouble getting him to spend time with me. We also have a thing where if he has plans with friends or i do then we both either make plans to go out with our friends or everyone together. It can be fun. Try inviting him to go out with you and your friends so he will see there is nothing to worry about. At this point having a baby is not the answer until this is resolved because then you and the baby will be stuck inside the house with him. You will get pregnant when the time is right.