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Well, I don’t think you have to talk to her like she’s your sister. Just ask how she is, what’s she’s doing. Stuff like that. Be friendly :J

i have two half brothers who ive only net a few times. i found it easier just letting them start the talking. lol
just say hi how are you what you been up to just wanted to chat

but maybe breath while saying it….

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*ballet dances around this post squealing in delight*

How about you make an e-card and tell her you’d like to get to know her better? Put your msn in and invite her to be a contact.

It’s important to realise she may not be comfortable with all this yet. It can be quite traumatic realising you have family you didn’t know.

By sending a cheerful card and letting her take the steps forward, you allow her to feel in control which may be important to her right now.

When she gets in touch.. have some “neutral” questions lined up. Here are some examples..

“hi, I have an essay to write on a famous person.. who do you think I should choose?”

“I’m not sure which shirt to wear to a reunion next week. What do you think? Red or blue?”

“How’s your school/work/hobby going?”

neutral questions are ones that aren’t too personal. They allow you to start a conversation without making someone feel pressured. When you feel more comfortable with each other, the conversation will flow…

Good luck