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How long do you think they will be together?

It’s been about a year now and they haven’t had the best relationship it’s been up and down. The guy is 23 and she is 18.
They are both Asians living in America and live close by. I’ve been checking her on myspace from time to time and it just doesn’t look like she really truly loves him. He sure loves her though and will probably never let her go. She could drop him like that and I watched it happen again and again, but she keeps going back. She has a lot of peer pressure to be with him. I just don’t think it could last. I don’t think she was ever that attracted to him. She even told me once “oh, he’s just a friend.”
What do you think?
Oh and I do like her and we’re close..I’d say I’m in the “neutral zone” with her.
I back off a lot though because I don’t want to move in on another guys territory.
I keep waiting and hope they break up for good.

HOW LONG is this wait gonna be???
thanks everyone!

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Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, myspace, life, Pressure, hope, AmericA, Like That, peer pressure, guy, live" 3 months ago.

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3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

well - at least you’re waiting.

but i think better to move on….even waiting, though its more honorable than making a move, it still is desiring someone elses partner…..and its not so healthy or good for you …

maybe if you stop thinking about her and begin to place your energies elsewhere and try to find someone else, THEn it will happen!!

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3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Well, I have moved on somewhat..The intense feelings I once had are still there, but have become lesser.

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Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, Love, life, Pressure, hope, AmericA, Like That, peer pressure, guy, live, girls" 3 months ago.

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