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CONFUSED AGAIN.

I saw a guy at a club and he was friends with my friend. As soon as I saw him, i was definitly attracted to him. Then we saw each other again at my friends birthday. We sat talking for hours until everyone had gone home, and we were still chatting and laughing. I was sitting next to him, and we leaning against each other the whole night. It felt right, and i definitly felt a connection with him. He invited me to his birthday party, at which I saw him kiss a girl he invited. I found out it was his girlfriend. I felt crushed. But he began talkin to me online, telling me that i should be a model and and that i was beautiful. He told me if he could he would want to make me laugh everyday, and that i have a great laugh. He keeps talking like this. Soon it kinda died off, had seen him in a couple of weeks. So i felt pretty much over him. Just friends i decided. So i was havinga birthday, and iinvited him along. He asked if he could bring his girlfriend and i said yes. At my birthday he totally ignored his girlfriend and was all over me. He was again, leaning against me, putting his arm on my shoulder, etc. Saying stuff in my ear, etc. It was so awkward. I glanced over to his girlfriend and he had totally blocked her away, like moved far away from her. He told her to move up, but she didnt. She was in huff with him, and it was obvious why. He was totally flirting with me right infront of his girlfriend.

When i got home, i got a text from him, saying that i was ignoring his girlfriend and if he could, please be nice and include her and for me not to make him choose between her and me. I was so annoyed. How hipocritical. This is the only second time ive ever seen her. Is he just angry because she is angry with him for ignoring her?

I know its not right, but i have feelings for him. I still feel attracted to him. But he wont stop playing the game. I dont know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him.

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biaxident offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

This guy likes to play head games and be manipulative. Back away and don’t talk to him any more. He’s a jerk.

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2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

should i speak to him about it? cause im always going to run into him cause he friends with my friends.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I doubt it would do any good. I don’t think you should.

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