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Will i ever find some one ?

?? i am starting to think no ones out there and i am finding hope being more and more a bad habit that hurts any way i am not a perfect looking guy but i would have to say average who just wants some one to love and care for and do the same for me pretty much i would kill to find a Relationship i would give up any thing

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christy.burns offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s hard to be patient. You’re 18! I guarantee it!

But there’s no reason to kill or give up eveything! It doesn’t work that way! :)

All I can tell you is that it will happen unless you live on a secluded island and you’re the only person on the island.

Interestingly - it often happens when you’re not looking. First thing is to be friendly, courteous and respectful if you’re looking for a girl. A friendly smile and hi is a fabulous start and if you’re not doing that to women you cross your path on a street - anywhere or any age - time to get practice even if it’s someone you’d never date. You might make their day…. And one day….if you’re in line at the grocery store - or someplace else - who knows….your friendly confident easy going smile and pleasant hi might be what starts a conversation.

The first thing is to find others and be friends with them. Who knows- they might have friends too.

Again - the answer is yes! You won’t find the perfect one instantly - that’s the odds and wouldn’t be best for you anyway. That’s just a numbers game and a random person isn’t for you. Get to know a number of people - or find tips or ask how to do so - if that doesn’t come normal to you!

YES - YES - YES!

dayling offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

it will come, the right person will come, relationships are not that fun(u know what i mean). It’s true its amzing to know someone loves you and you love them back, you learn alot from relationships, plus its something everyone should experience at some point in their lifes, maybe its not your time yet!just remember be prepered for suffering and fights and headakes!sorry its the truth

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

yea your right but i feel like somethings missing from my life dayling dont tell me that i know deep down you have some great memory’s that made you happy and make you feel warm and nice but yea he should not treat you like that no matter what not saying that because i am some super relationship info guy its common since i know people who have been going out for years and they almost never fight and i know people who fight 24/7 so not all relationships are bad and some start good and end bad too

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outskirts offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

I say that you should take Christy’s advise. Well said Christy!

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

i know i will that was to dayling

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

of coarse you will you silly boy.go get um.

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

thx for the morale boost

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

many young guys like yourself don’t understand the power of flowers.
You see some young chick that you’re interested in,
go and buy a single red rose. Give it to her. And say nothing.
Walk away immediately. A few days later give her another one.

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

I also ask myself the same question weeks ago.

But things are lighter now.

So to answer your question:

YES you will! :)

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

cole_wrinkl wrote:
thx for the morale boost

You see its working already.

If you only knew just how hot “lilies” is………. you know what I mean.

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Aw Spira. ;)

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

i look german and i look wired to people in fouke so that gets me loneliness

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Galliano, Maine,Saturna, Pender, salt Spring, Vancouver Island,
Orcas,Lummi.
Any of those sound familiar to you?

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Okay here Cole, start making friends. Taking your time getting to know them would do. Love and friendship knows no boundaries when you trust that they love you beyond what they see.

And by the way, you look great to me! :)

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Vancouver dose

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

thank you lilies

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

and you to spiratec 9

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

cole_wrinkl wrote:
thank you lilies

you can’t get any better than:
And by the way, you look great to me! :)

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

*winks

thanks guys. would you believe that this post helps me a lot today?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

it isn’t just you look good to me. It’s you look great to me!!!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

~lilies~ wrote:
*winksthanks guys. would you believe that this post helps me a lot today?

how?

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

thanks lilies you look beautiful

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

cole_wrinkl wrote:
and you to spiratec 9

you’re welcome. Your time is coming.

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

cole_wrinkl wrote:
thanks lilies you look beautiful

Thanks dear. :)

spiratec9 wrote:

cole_wrinkl wrote:
and you to spiratec 9

you’re welcome. Your time is coming.

Spira is right. In fact, so right. ;)

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

~lilies~ wrote:

cole_wrinkl wrote:
thanks lilies you look beautiful
Thanks dear. :)
spiratec9 wrote:
cole_wrinkl wrote:
and you to spiratec 9
you’re welcome. Your time is coming.
Spira is right. In fact, so right. ;)

listen to lilies she knows what she’s talking about.

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

i am

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

cole_wrinkl wrote:
i am

yeh!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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cole_wrinkle offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

well add to friends?

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антихрист offline Verified User (5 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

give it time man

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 days, 7 hours after post)

I have accepted your invite. :) Nice to meet you!

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