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is there really a light at the end of the tunnel?

why does it seem in my adult life that i can’t seem to make the right descisions? or why do i pick the wrong men? why can’t I figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life? why do I keep worrying about others as opposed to myself?thes past few months have been horrible, I keep hurting people close to me and it is starting to catch up with me, and i am not happy at all

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2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

life always starts with mistakes. it makes you stronger when you learn from it.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 768 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Life is all about learning. Learn from your mistakes and things will start getting better.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

it happens to everyone, i may only be young but i know that it will get better! and if it doesnt, then you need to make it better! cant figure out what to do in life! ah well, take is as it comes, make it up as you go along! enjoy life! be happy and things will be better! i know how it feels to hurt people, it is horrible! try apologising if that’s an option, it could possibly make things a lot better!
peace

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Belgrade, 02, RS | 2 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Light isn’t on the end of the tunnel, light was inside the tunnel - light is you.

As many person you also go astray. You trie this, trie that…you buy this, buy that…you looking for love in other person and of course, you can’t find that love. But you (and all mankind) are forget to looking for love in only place where love was. Inside you (us).

People can harm you, they can take from you your money, they can take from you your car, your house, your business… they can take from you everything what they wish…exept one thing, they can’t take from you your Love. Nobody can thieve your Love. Nobody.
Only what they can, was that they can constrain you that you forget on Love.They can constrain you that you think: “Oh, every time when I love other person, I be loser. Every time when I love, I be hurted. Love make me weak. I’ll waive love, as a way to be successifull”.

Some person can live without love and feel that they are very happy, becaouse they are successifull and powerful.
Some person can’t live without Love and whatever that they have,whatever how much are powerful, they are unhappy.They need Love.His own love, love which was inside them.

Is a hard task to find Love?

Not to much. Only what you need to do, was that delete clouds of pain and trauma and Love will from inside shine on you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

My dad always said, “If in doubt, do nowt (nothing)”. When we feel bad inside, we hurt others cos we think we dont really deserve to be happy/ have true friends/ good things in our life, etc. I recommend you either confide in a trusted friend or seek help from a counsellor re: issues around low self-esteem/self worth.
I dont know if you have a faith of any kind, I have recently accepted Jesus as being real and alive for me. Apologies if this is not for you, I didnt think it would be for me, being a counsellor/ artist with many tattoos!
If Jesus is not for you after a bit of web surfing (I can recommend the site called rejesus, just for posting a prayer for yourself) then look to increasing your self worth and finding TRUE people in your life who you can rely on. We all need someone.
God bless, my friend, Im asking the angels to send you a hug :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (6 hours, 34 minutes after post)

to answer your question, no matter how stressful life is, there IS always a light at the end of the tunnel. :)

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