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Im from Scotland and she is Danish and i moved to Copenhagen to be with her.
Im 21 and she is 19 and we have been living together for a year and she is still living with me. She told me a few nights ago she wants to break up but she still loves me a lot and wants me to be her best guy friend and stay close with me. She is still living with me 5 days sfter she told me about breaking up and she still sleeps in the same bed as me too.. When she talks a lot of the time she keeps saying things like we and us etc.. I still love her and want to be with her and she still loves me she says and that i will always have that special place in her. What should i do? This is hard. Im just trying my best to respect her feelings and be there for her. She also says the reason for the break up is because she wants to just focus on herself for awhile and not worry about anything else and after time she says there is a good chance we can get back together. Its stupid though as 2 weeks ago we went and just bought a dog together, an 8 weeks old king charles and its getting used to the apartment and if she moves out its going to effect the dog too moving again! Thanks for any help you have to offer!Thanks for the speedy replies! I love her though and im hoping she wont move out… we went out for a meal last night and had a great time, felt as though we had met for the first time again! The thing is though i have been the one working for a year and supplying almost all the money into the relationship while she studies etc. She just got a full time job and its right next to our apartment! So if she stays she has her work right next door! I also know she doesnt really have many options on were to go right now, it would just make more sense to stay together. For her birthday i bought her a trip to Paris and we were meant to go in 4 weeks. iTS ALL HARD! I gave up everything in Scotland to come here and ive not been back since. Now i have built a life here in Denmark and i have a job, i feel like moving back to Scotland would be a step backwards!
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