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ok so i have friends who are going on our end of yearschool trip. there are about 13 of us in the same year (including me),out of my friends who are going. so i am am going with a group of friends who are carmen, lucy and samntha and i asked samantha if we could go togeather then she said that we can go around with lucy and carmen and i said ok thinking there was no harm. then one day she seemed really angry at me and i asked her why and then she said i was being bossy and i apologised and then i said to her if you feel like im doing it again then tell me. and before i could even finish what i was saying she said i was being bossy again and i left it there, but then she started to emiotionally blackmail me whenever i said or did something she didn’t like weather she started or said something back. She would say “i will go off with carmen and lucy if you keep doing that” and to show her i didnt care i would say “fine go i don’t care” and then she would stop and do it agian a few days later. and today i felt really bad because she firstly used me to go and see lucy in the art room then she left me on my own in the meeting we had for the trip (ok, i sat somewhere because i didnt want to sit where they were - carmen sam and lucy, so i sat near them but not one of them had the decency to come and sit with me i would for them) my other firends called me over but i said no because they were with their friends - who i dont really talk to so i didnt want to upset them ( the other friends) so i said i am with lucy carmen and sam and they said ok. i left that there and then i had asked sam if i can sit nexxt to her on the coach and she said yea but then at the meeting i was told that i wasnt even going to be able to sit next to her and she didnt mind! i felt really upset! and i let it by i didnt tell her. and now i don’t know if she will leave me on my own on the trip but i feel like it could be a possibility. and then you might be thinking that why don;t i go with my other friends adn the thing with that is a feel really rude if i just go and ask them if i can hang out with them because they have already made plans and i dont want t interfere and make them feel as if im using them.and iw as told at the meeting that i could not go round alone becaus eit is dangerous and i dont know what to do please help!
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