Love help: Jealousy woes… - Help.com

oof. ive had that same problem. what you should NOT do, is make a big deal out of it. which is what i did. What you should do, is learn to accept it. soend as much time with them together as poss, and you’ll get used to it. :)

sounds hard, but believe me, thats the best way.

yeah, i know what you mean. thats exactly what i did! but in order for them not to turn against you, you need tor release it differently. its a shame he doesnt feel that way about you.. ive had my fair share of that. but thats life aint it. :)

well i have had it happen to me be for but it was a girl she left me for one of my friends i got pretty angry but what could i do? sure go beat him and cause more problems and hate i just realized that every thing happens for a reason i found out she started cheating on him and it hurt him so bad just remember karma is on your side some times

This story reminds me of an incident I went through.. My ex girlfriend was having back problems so I hired a chiropractor..He was only supposed to crack her bones, however he ended “councelling her” and the “sessions were about her leaving me which he encouraged.. I was furious…. But what I learned is you cant control people.. If your guy friend loved yo he wouldnt be hitting on your friend.. Dont even think it is your fault.. He has some issues with his commitment with you and maybe its better it comes out now then latter when you could really become heartbroken

Hi Nensix If this guy is only more interested in your friend because she is pretty then he is shallow minded and not worth being with in that way. If you were to get together you would always be thinking is he thinking of someone else who is prettier than me. Which would then send you into a jelous rage which ends up getting you no where. Be friends with him and leave it at that. and if your friend knows that you like him and she starts seeing him then she isn’t your friend not really not if she knows how much it would hurt you. Hope this helps.

Hey, that seems like quite a complicated situation, I hope it works out for you. If i were you I’d tell my (girl) friend how much I liked him so she’d take it seriously and not try anything with him, and then just try to forget/change the feelings you have for him. If he’s such a good friend, even if you had a chance, would you want to risk your friendship over something that might not last and could destroy it completely? Just try to have as much fun as possible with both of them, and keep your eye out for other guys! :)