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happitoday

Need advice…

. I’m a medical student that needs money. My grandma co-signed for a loan but is was declined my credit is BAD and i need a place of my own my boy friend left me for someone else and i feel SO alone right now and NEED my own place. Please can someone tell me what to do and give me some other options. I have prayed, asked my universe I have been very positive and still my world is falling down in front of me I only have 1.5 yrs to go and I know that I can do it, but I need my own place and Re-group then I’ll fly, but right now I’m falling down and can’t stop crying…….

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Chameleon 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Where are you living now?

happitoday 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

living between my grandmas and my best friends - while her kids are out of town was living with step-father and ex boy friend but they said better for me to go some where else..

Help me with: Why is dose my life stuck and my ex has it made, has everything!

NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Canyou just stay at your grandma for right now. This will give you time to regroup and move on. Can you get any other financial aid? Loans or Grants. Are you working now?

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Chameleon 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Your stepfather is living with your ex boyfriend?

happitoday 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

I’m working. i love my grandma but it’s HOT and my uncle live there too and i don’t have room so i stay in the living room. i have tried to get other financial aid but no luck yet….

Help me with: Why is dose my life stuck and my ex has it made, has everything!

happitoday 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

No my ex lives with my step-father… they told me to go…

Help me with: Why is dose my life stuck and my ex has it made, has everything!

Chameleon 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

Ok that’s just weird to me that your stepfather would tell you to leave and keep your ex boyfriend there :/

Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

Unless they are dating. Stranger things have happened.

Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Sorry, I know that don’t help

happitoday 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

I know it hurts more then you know, so i don’t even call him or go out there anymore… there is a BAD BAD history with me and my step dad, but i though i was over it and now its all comming back….

Help me with: Why is dose my life stuck and my ex has it made, has everything!

Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

History repeats it’s self and it’s always a lil worse than before if you don’t learn the lessons you are suppose too learn in life. First relax, because it is never as bad as it seems. Focus on you not the people causing problems. Don’t give them power over you be letting them upset you. Then start thinking of what to do.

happitoday 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

yes thats true… but now i don’t know what to do… I want / NEED my own place to focus on me again, I’m so positive with other people but with me I’m so negative… I have read the secret and other movies about the universes and still nothing… I can’t don;t know what i have done in my passed that keeps kicking me in the butt….

Help me with: Why is dose my life stuck and my ex has it made, has everything!

Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

First, from your story, It seems you have always relied on other people to help support you. No offense. You needed your BF to help with the bills to stay where you were right?

Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

I can only see two problems. Or one really. You need a loan for school. You have a temp place to live right now. You are not on a time limit to fish school, so take time to get your self together and deal with the breakup. Go out with your friends, let them help cheer you up. When you start feeling a lil better focus on living arrangements, then worry about school. Food and shelter are the priority. You can do this. Remember he left. It doesn’t matter who did what or why. You have all those answers. You have the strength to get through this.

Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Talk to the person in charge of financial aid at your college. If you are smart enough to get into medical school, they will want to retain you and help you.

Or offer to live with an older person in exchange for helping them around the house and transportation issues.

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