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What do you do when you hurting the one you love most?

Long distance relationship…she needs me there with her to make her feel happy…I just can’t go cause I don’t got no money right now, don’t have a car, and I haven’t traveled before…soo I’m kinda nervous about that too.
I feel the same way…but I look too the future and I can wait…but I don’t she will be able too. I live in CA she lives in USA. Love her so much!!!!!!!!

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

How long have you known each other and have you met in person yet?

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

2 years…and no we haven’t met…and yes we will be together…lol…and will it work out? maybe…maybe not.

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Evenstar offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

Get a job, save money and get out there before you lose her.

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

plan on getting job like 2 weeks…then theres the thing about never traveling…I wouldn’t know what to do lol

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Twunt offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 47 minutes after post)

How old are you? Can’t you get your provisional and start having lessons? It will take time probs but would be very worth it in the end! If one of your friends has a car you could both go down, make it like a road trip! And travelling isn’t that complicated, I was scared when I first did, but so long as you don’t miss the bus/train or whatever, its fine :)

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Evenstar offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 48 minutes after post)

What’s wrong with traveling? It’s so much fun to get out of town and see new places and people!

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fallen angel offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

come c me then N take me away..;p

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Mmm…I’m 21…haven’t really done much. Ya i think it would be fun to travel to…just not alone. It would be boring.

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fallen angel offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

mm…im 22..hehe yes its always fun to travel…..

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

wish i could travel with you lol…probly make it fun.

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fallen angel offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 week after post)

O reallY??..;) hm.. we could make it happen captain..;p hehe ur in the ride of ur life tho..;p

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months ago (1 week after post)

lol :)

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fallen angel offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 week after post)

IM READY TO GO AWAY seriously cuz i lost everything in the fire thiz past saturday…so idc anymore..:((

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mike_jj offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 3 months ago (1 week after post)

I’m so sorry too hear that…and I probly would if i had a bit of money and a car lol.
Are you okay?

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