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Okay all I went CRAZY again today with my ex.

I was trying to listen to him about his NEW girl friend whom he cheated on with me and we have cheated on her…. I don’t love him in the same way, i don’t wish any bad on him, but I have to let GO… and move on…. I want to go see her in the morning, and ask her about her husband and why she is cheating on him and tell her that my ex (her side boy friend) are still having sex so how in the world are they going to trust each other???? my world came falling down again, 1st my student loan didn’t go throu and then this…… How can I change my ways? I know if I can just get my own place I would be better off… I’m living between my grandma and best freind houses…. TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! Iknow I need to let him go and I have today was it for me, because I was giving him the power over me, and now I’m slowing getting it back the more i think about him and what kind of (cheater) his is, I want true love, real love. Is this such a thing????

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Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

this situation is bad, whacked, no good will come of it period.

to have healthy good love have to have honesty trust but you know this.

MOVE ON. dont use living situation as excuse. find hobbies, throw yourself into new things….dont get involved in the drama, talk to x y or z.

remove yourself and get a good life with good friends and good people.
stop the insanity.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

also not to be judgy but stop this deceptive stuff and good things will happen to you again (if you believe in karma). focus on whats right….drop all this - move on. get out. your life will get on track when you start making sound healthy decisions.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Karma…. Thats whats wrong now with me, maybe I slept with a married man and now it’s happing to me…. How can one change Karma, Can you? I have tried to be SO postive and still “bad things” are happening to me!!!! I’m VERY post. with my friend, okay sometimes I’m neg with my self….. I need to get my own place and move on I know….

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Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

well you said you just slept with someone who is already with someone else (even if every person in this scenario has no integrity, honesty, or decency).

you change karma by stopping behaving bad ways. clean it up girl. rise up higher. you dont need to be sleeping with someone elses guy.

doesnt matter how positive you say you are if you are doing dishonest, sneaky, immoral things. come on now. not to be judgy - but you asked.

want good karma, behave well.

whatever seeds you sow is what will happen, either way - good or bad up to you…

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