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Okay i LOVE this guy, me and him were freinds for about

a year now we talk everyday and hes like my best friend and im his also.Hes older then me by a few years though.Hes always like Where have u been! i missed you i love you and stuff.The thing is he has a gf and they been going out for a year .I realyyyyyy do love him its been 6 months now and I dont want to tell him beacuse I dont wana ruin are friendship, and i dont want it to seem that im trying to break them up. Should i tell him? and sometimes he realy does seem like he likes me and im so confused some one help please

im VERY sorry for my english

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

I think when he says he loves you, he means as a friend.

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3 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

NO. STOP. STop spending so much time with him. Stop thinking about him a lot. Pull away a bit. This is not going anywhere good. And what he’s said - not so appropriate. Really - if he is decent and really does want you he would dump the other girl. GET OUT - focus on other stuff - if hes that into you he’ll dump her and come after yuou but this is NOT good karma.
come on now - he’s taken.
you wont get anywhere worth getting with this kind of thinking….even if you do get what you think you want.
bad mojo man.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Yess i knoww im doing something wrong but i dont realy flirt with him and im not planning to tell him i like him tell him and his gf break up But i want the best for him.And yes im tryig to move on but its so hard i never liked someone as much.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

it sound like something bads going to happen i would just keep on the down low with this tell there through bc if u say u like him and the girl finds out youll never see him again and he might not feel the same

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3 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

STOP IT. Grow up. Quit your whining about w haaat yooouuu waaaant.

He’s taken. Put your thoughts and energies somewhere else.
So WHAt you never felt this way about anybody. Get over it. Its not right. Cant go following your feelings around when it is not right.
Get a hobby. Get on chatrooms. Get busy. Move on.
You are not doing yourself any favors and NOTHING good is going to come of it even if you do get your fantasy - not this way anyway.

CUt it out. Yes its not what you had in mind but continuing down this path is WRONG and wont lead anywhere good. Have some decency, maturity - do the right thing and THEN you will be presente dwith a guy you like even MORE and who is FREE to like you back. quit your whining that you want someone elses guy. its not cool.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

okay im not WHINGING i said im not gona tell im and if i wantd 2 break them up iwould of tried to but tahts not what im planning to 2 and as i said BEFORE im trying to move on you dont have to be so rude about it.

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