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I act like I have it all figured out.

My family loves me and thinks I’m great. I’m popular at my high school. Adults love me. Kids love me. I’m a good guy. But I dont have all the answers. I dont know what kind of response I am looking for. Words of encouragement I guess. Something. Anything to keep me going. Please?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 676 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

You’re expecting too much of yourself. No one else expects you to know all the answers. We’re all just fumbling around blind :D

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istillreallyloveri offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Sometimes appearing like you “have it all figured out” puts pressure on you to be something you are not. We’re all humans trying to figure out this crazy life. Relax- and enjoy the journey!

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 48 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (6 hours, 17 minutes after post)

wow, even when everything seems to be going for you, you still have problems…..you can always use the “i have no idea, i would need google to answer that” excuse that my dad often uses..

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downman1 offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (9 hours, 35 minutes after post)
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shol'vah offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Anchorage, AK, US | 2 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Nobody ever has all the answers, tell people what you can, try not to mislead them. That is what people usually look up to a person for, not being all knowing but for being the kind of person that they can trust to tell them what they believe is true and to do what is best not only for themselves but for others as well. Keep up the good work and don’t get discouraged when you don’t know all the answers, no one does :)

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