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I am a married 19 year old girl.

So, I’ve been married now for 1 year and my husband has been unfaithful to me since we were dating. He kissed my sister, my friend, and had sex with this girl I don’t even care of (and more). By feeling revenge or loneliness, I started seeing someone else (his cousin) and went all the way with this person. Now I was the unfaithful one too. But the bad thing about this is that my feelings started to change, a lot of anger between my husband. Saying to myself to leave him, but never had the courage and still don’t. I don’t see his cousin anymore because he is in the army… Probably I maybe an open door for men but I don’t see it that way. He tells me that he loves me and I sometimes do believe him but I don’t want to feel this way. What shall I do?

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dese offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

leave him

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

like he said

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I am a married 19 year old girl. So, I’ve been married now for 1 year and my husband has been unfaithful to me since we were dating. He kissed my sister, my friend, and had sex with this girl I don’t even care of (and more). By feeling revenge or loneliness, I started seeing someone else (his cousin) and went all the way with this person. Now I was the unfaithful one too. But the bad thing about this is that my feelings started to change, a lot of anger between my husband. Saying to myself to leave him, but never had the courage and still don’t. I don’t see his cousin anymore because he is in the army… Probably I maybe an open door for men but I don’t see it that way. I would really appreciate you telling me what you think.

I really need an advice, please!!!
Thank you.

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joize22 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

if u wear marry just be faithful

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3 months ago (7 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Go to college, make sure you have the skills to support yourself and leave. Do not have children with this man.

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