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I’m tired of being alone.

Why don’t guys like me? I had a boyfriend for 3 years who ended up cheating on me. Why can’t i find a good christian guy.

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andy.feni offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Find a friend. They tend to last longer than romantic interests.

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redsoxgirl offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

i don’t have friends, they don’t stick around very long.

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andy.feni offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Then find something you enjoy doing, derive pleasure from that. You might try helping others (guilty). The connection you make is worthwhile, even if it sometimes it is fleeting.

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

try not to go looking and then maybe it will find you

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Sherooo offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

why christian? just because a guys christian doesnt mean hes gonna be any better than other guys.

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

You sound like you’ve had your heart broken, but it’s no reason to think you wont find another decent guy again. Don’t try to force it just go out and have fun doinf your own thing, good things always have a way of finding good people.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

why wont you go to the philippines…there are many hot guys there…and most of the filipinos dont cheat on girls..and there sooooo romantic…

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akyakaren offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

ı thought the same at your age. but at 24 I happily married. just wait. be patient.

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Namaste` offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

yeh, you will get what you expect, think about what you want constantly and it will come, these things take time

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3 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Being alone is the best place to be.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 22 minutes after post)

maybe broaden your horizons. look for guys in school clubs and stuff. And he might not necessarily have to be Christian. Oh yea gain some confidence and don’t act desperate we can smell you from a mile away if you’re desprate. ;-0

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noland_37 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 hours, 31 minutes after post)

i know exactly what you mean and well my advice is to be patient i guess. thats all i can do and thats all you can do. and just wait for God to bring the right person into your life =]

(when im writing this, it also applies to me too hehe)

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