friends help: help needed, There is thi girl in my office who was a good friend of mine since 2 years, lately i started feeling towards her and proposed her. - Help.com

Were you dating? Did you just propose out of the blue? She probably didn’t see it coming if you were just friends. She might be uncomfortable being around you right now. Give it time, don’t push or rush it. Don’t propose again.

When you say proposed to her… do you mean marriage… or do you mean you proposed that you two should date?

If you just asked her to marry you with out spending any significant time with her outside of work, well you’ve probably frightened her. And I mean that quite literally. Despite the innocence of your feelings, she probably doesn’t understand, and is afraid that you are crazy, hence the reason she is not returning your calls. I’m not trying to be mean, but you need to take things slow with people…..

if she said no that means she not interested…since she went on vacation and you called once..that enough!!!she would know that you called!so you cannot keep on sweating her liek that..you make yourself look like a stalker!!

we were not dating….and i didnt proposed to marry me, i just meant that we should be together. and i was ok when she rejected me. but when she wasnt replying to my calls i got real worried so i called many times and that i guess pushed her over the edge. i have said sorry like a million times since, and i am feeling guilty. i cant get her out of my head.