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No one really wants to be short or have brown hair. Do they?

We want what we can’t have…Or we want to be different…Also other people value different things…

I’m short brown hair too.

Don’t cry.

Lol I’m short and have naturally brown hair (but I die it red)!!!

Do you have to bleach it first?

yay for short brunettes.

Nope…I just use red dye…Bright red dye!

before the red dye. but evidently not.

Oh okay…Sorry thought you were a girl! :P

You never know.. that thing you hate or you think might not work could work well for someone else. So that is life for you and that is why we are many.

Lol! I didn’t look at your profile…I just assumed which was wrong :(

im ugly.

Yeah I do! Omg essex is close… :)

People always see themselves diferently to the way others see them.
If I could see myself through someone elses eyes I would probably like what I saw more than I do now.
I think maybe it applies to the “always want what you can’t have” or maybe what you don’t have saying.
Poor people want to be rich, fat people want to be thin, small people want to be taller etc the list can go on.
I think if you actualy got everything you wanted you would still be searching for something else, thats life and if you had everything then I doubt you would be any happier with what you had.

I think my main one is that I would love to be a few brain cells smarter than I am, I am not too overly bothered about materialistic things or what my body looks like as that can and will always change, objects break and skin sags in time yet you can hang on to intellignece for a little longer than any of that :)

wow.. that is a very interesting question… lol.. all my life i had dark hair.. and i actually dyed it blond for about 2 years… i personally feel that… i wanted to be that blond because i was not happy with what i looked like in the first place.. i guess i just wanted to change who i was… and even though it didnt change me personally… it made me feel better about myself for a while… lazy daze is right… once you change one thing.. there is always something else to change later on… making us realize that.. being happy with who we are.. is a huge thing in life that we all have to deal with..

wayneandc wrote:
Inside or outside ????

outside. and maybe inside a little.

People always want to expand and improve things in their lives and experience more. It’s just human nature. But also we need to love ourselves unconditionaly.

Well put wayne. Who is to say that anyone is ugly? Where did we get the perception of who is beautiful? Anyway, I think that everyone has the perception that they CAN have anything they want for the right price. Anymore, you see people with a different look everyday. So, if someone saw something they wanted, perhaps, blonde hair ( By the way, I prefer brown hair lol) it wouldn’t be hard to achieve that look

wayneandc wrote:
You can never be ugly outside that is just a perception, how many times have you seen a couple and say they are not matched, millions, she obviously sees something that you dont.
As for the inside, my veiw is if you are doing things right and are doing your best you can not possibly be ugly on the inside. If you undertake to do un moral things it tends to bite you in the **** and make you sad on the inside. Its all about liking what you are and others will like you also.

no i hella fuggle and im only a little ugly on the inside cause im stupid.