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Am totally shocked at my behaviour!

I have treated someone who was so good to me, like crap!. I can’t believe how I destroy what is good in my life. I thought I had things sussed!

What a twat xx

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Dreamer-Eliewved offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 164 #
Cornsay, D8, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

I’ve done that before.

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vintage offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
London, H9, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

But I thought I had sorted things. You know, that I was aware emotionally. I was so wrong and now have ruined things x

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Can you apologize and explain?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

these things happen. you just gotta try your best to put it all right again i guess, as well as you can.

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vintage offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
London, H9, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

I have tried for the past week to explain but it isn’t wanted. So I’m left thinking, I’ve made a mistake. I try soooo hard all the time to do the right thing. I get a glimpse of happiness and I stuff it up. I am so down I wonder why I bother. xx

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

some tend to learn from their mistakes, maybe you could too. think of this as just another lesson in life. now you’ll probably try your best not to “stuff it up”, however you’re doing it.

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vintage offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
London, H9, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I do learn from mistakes. I think its what the journey is about. I just thought maybe I had a time to just be happy for a while. No lessons, no learning, just be happy, until the next juncture etc. Not for me though, more **** and another mistake/lesson. Am sick of it. When is my time.

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3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Every time can be your time, just nothing is perfect and we always have to keep learning.

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London, H9, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks for your words. I’m not usually this upset. I havent been this upset for years xx

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London, H9, GB | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

I dont usually ask for anything because I believe that things have a way of working them selves out. I believe in giving not receiving, in helping others, being ‘good’ etc. I have run out of optimism and am shocked at how unfair things are.xx

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3 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Don’t give up, you are a very special good person. You have a lot to offer, which not everyone has. Good things will come to you, don’t lose faith.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I do it all the time. treat em’ mean, keep em’ keen. works wonders. I’m surprised it didn’t work for you!

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