Kissing…
causes SO much drama
My best friend kissed a 21 year old and she’s only 16. Plus she has two boyfriends, and the one she’s been dating for a year has no idea about the other two. She went on a scuba cruise and met this guy and kissed him I guess. The thing is, she’s not a ho. And she’s smart and pretty and very un-whitetrash-ish so this just kinda freaked me out! I want her to tell her longtime boyfriend about all of it, but she won’t listen to me. Like I said…SO much drama
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Kissing isn’t causing the drama, your friends is. And no offence but saying she isn’t a ho seems a bit . . . . . . ridiculous. I don’t like insulting people, particularly a person I have never met but if she’s kissing other blokes, has two boyfriends, one of which is a long-term relationship, well . . . . . . . I would find it very difficult to have any form of respect for a person like that.
Did you know that there are enough germs in a kiss to kill a rabbit?
That is why I don’t go around kissing rabbits so I won’t kill them.
meh tis only 5 years. doesnt make her a ho. it was only a kiss. at least she didnt sleep with him. then she might be called a ho.
u shudnt really get involved me thinks. one day she’ll slip up.
Well thats the thing…this is sooo not like her. And she thinks its funny and probably won’t care what I say but I was so dissapointed in her. I liked the guy she’s been dating for a year for a long time and she got him cause I’m a REALLY good person! And this is what she does with him? I would’ve been a better girlfriend. And when it comes to the ho issue…we live in Utah there is very kissing/sleeping around…so yeah she looks like a ho
Huh? Theres no reason why a person should even be in multiple relationships. Like the yellow fish up there said… “Kissing isn’t causing the drama, your friends is.” Having multiple relationships is IMMORAL to me, more importantly, it can get very complicated. She could be hooking up with a jeleouse psycho for all she knows and end up doing something stupid and it also gives her a very bad image. A very promiscuous image that is.. shes young and needs a one on one REALITY talk. But i guess you have to be careful and tell her the REAL life risks (Health & social) of what she is doing. Dont tell her not to do it, most likely shell want to do it more, so just tell her what concequences can come about.
idk me thinks.
Most of our friends are mormon so she wont tell them cause its pretty frowned upon and I’m sure her parents don’t know so its only me. I have to be super carreful cause if she gets mad and wont listen to me…well thats it
hilarious real boy btw :)
lol :)
From what it sounds like anyway there isn’t a huge amount you can do. Telling people would jeopardise your relationship with your friend, and if she won’t listen to your concerns and “finds it funny” then chances are you will find it very difficult to change her mind and to tell the people that should know about it. And pressing her on the issue would also jeopardise your relationship with her.
I think that I’m the person that knows her best. Her parents would be way too protective, everybody else would say “party on”, and I think I’m right imbetween. I’m hoping that when I talk to her she’ll be guilted by me, since she knows that I love her like a lot. But I haven’t talked to her except for a twenty second phone call cause she’s in the Bahamas still and she doesn’t get back til tomorrow.
Thanks…I really can’t stress how out of character this is for her, she isn’t a stupid girl and she’s smarter than this
Meh, I don’t know you or the girl so how the girl sounds to us doesn’t matter really but I’ll take your word for it :)
you look like a yellow fish! on the picture that is… i would have copied and pasted ur name but then it would say ” hey…iknowyou ” OH WAIT GAWD im an idiot i though i was reading a long sentance because of the dots….. ok ill shutty now… i look like a fool
I’m sorry about the sittuation though i still think someone needs to have a talk with her. I would rather have her hate me for being protective of her than make a mistake or not do anything at all :( But im thinking as a parent i guess??
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you look like a yellow fish! on the picture that is… i would have copied and pasted ur name but then it would say ” hey…iknowyou ” OH WAIT GAWD im an idiot i though i was reading a long sentance because of the dots….. ok ill shutty now… i look like a fool
See?
Not that it bothered me or anything, I just figured I’d let you know! And now I’m off to bed! Take care everyone, again I hope everything works out OK :)
haha thanks :)
no offense but dont ya think your friend might not want you putting her life on the internet. i dont really think its your place to ask for comments on her life…
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