What did you do that they won’t trust you again?
was about to ask the same :)
Is there anything not so nice that you did?
By not doing things that betray their trust. Trust cannot be gained immediately, it takes time to build it up but only one act to completely shatter it.
how is trust rebuilt is all i need to know????
By not doing things that betray their trust.
its hard to do. really hard. you should ask the ones who don’t trust you what to do cause only they will know.
i told a secret,went behind her(best friend) back,and i cheated 4xs on my ex but he still took me back twice after the first time..but he(my ex bf) still cares 4 me and she still loves me
i love them both …i need them both..i cant lose them..:((
How about apologizing for the things that you did that made them lose their trust in you? How about telling them you will never do it again, promise and keep that promise? Being a nice person all around. Being true to your word. Changing your behavior and attitude towards the people you offended.
i feel so low ….i jus dont wanna live anymore..wats the point now..
the point is that you know you did wrong and you know you want to get them back. So you have nothing to loose. Just tell them what you think and that you’re sorry and if you promise something, don’t break it. It’s an unwritten law. And i wish u luck :)
thank u liindaa for the luck:) i gonna need it.:(
The thing is that sometimes when we do wrong things or offend people we love and care for we don’t really think of the consequences. You have to realize that people lose trust in you if you lose their trust once. But, you did it twice to your boyfriend. Wow! Your best friend still loves you! Double wow! Now you have to go to them and ask them to forgive you. They may not take you back as girlfriend or friend but at least you will have a clear conscience that you tried and admitted your wrong doing to them. Don’t give up on them. But you have to accept the fact that is going to take time before they accept you again. You have to do things to gain their trust back. It’s going to take a lot nice acts on your part towards them. If they are truly your friends they will forgive you. I don’t know about taking you back but at least you will have given it a try. You are already accepting responsibility so that’s a positive step in the right direction. You have to keep on going to make sure that you can actually show them that you can be trusted again. And when they earn your trust again make a point to keep their trust and their love. You just have to thread carefully around them so they accept you and when they do eventually you will feel their love and trust for you again. Don’t despair. They sound like really good friend and boyfriend. The trick is to give yourself the chance to show them that you are worth having around as a girlfriend and friend.
Apologizing for the things that you did that made them lose their trust in you. Telling them you will never do it again. the most important step to building a foundation of trust is to do what you say you will do. Even if it is a small thing, failing to follow through will create hairline fractures in your trustworthiness. Never lie, people will sense that and you will be much more loved and appreciated for your honesty. prove you have nothing to hide and no gossip allowed. Never blab someone else’s story. Sometimes it feels unavoidable to lie. It is best to confess to your lie as soon as possible and explain your motives. If you get caught, don’t deny it
littlenick wrote:
The thing is that sometimes when we do wrong things or offend people we love and care for we don’t really think of the consequences. You have to realize that people lose trust in you if you lose their trust once. But, you did it twice to your boyfriend. Wow! Your best friend still loves you! Double wow! Now you have to go to them and ask them to forgive you. They may not take you back as girlfriend or friend but at least you will have a clear conscience that you tried and admitted your wrong doing to them. Don’t give up on them. But you have to accept the fact that is going to take time before they accept you again. You have to do things to gain their trust back. It’s going to take a lot nice acts on your part towards them. If they are truly your friends they will forgive you. I don’t know about taking you back but at least you will have given it a try. You are already accepting responsibility so that’s a positive step in the right direction. You have to keep on going to make sure that you can actually show them that you can be trusted again. And when they earn your trust again make a point to keep their trust and their love. You just have to thread carefully around them so they accept you and when they do eventually you will feel their love and trust for you again. Don’t despair. They sound like really good friend and boyfriend. The trick is to give yourself the chance to show them that you are worth having around as a girlfriend and friend.
my bf said he dont want me but cares for me…hes my ex now..:(((
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Apologizing for the things that you did that made them lose their trust in you. Telling them you will never do it again. the most important step to building a foundation of trust is to do what you say you will do. Even if it is a small thing, failing to follow through will create hairline fractures in your trustworthiness. Never lie, people will sense that and you will be much more loved and appreciated for your honesty. prove you have nothing to hide and no gossip allowed. Never blab someone else’s story. Sometimes it feels unavoidable to lie. It is best to confess to your lie as soon as possible and explain your motives. If you get caught, don’t deny it
my best freind has already decided that she has befreinded me and we can never retrieve back it back ever:(( but yet again she was angry and said she still loves me after..???
I’m just going to flat out say it; theres NO way to regain trust when you loose it completely. If she lost trust once; it will never be regained. UNLESS MAYBE you go the EXTREME like jump infront of a car for her….. but thats like stupid to do haha… that was an example i wouldnt recommend thou!
Sorry if i bursted a bubble :(
I was just being honest though. I would never be able to trust someone who has betrayed or hurt me in any small or big way.
i know what you are feeling i am in the same situation, Ihurt myex husband and i feelIlost him forever, trust is hard to regain, but il earned to let go of the past and move on for our children. After realizing twoyears later he has moved on and ifound forgiveness within myself and in him and I am trying tomake amends for self first most and for our children nd praying one day that he willcome backto me and our family..Iwanna show him that Ihave changed in nd out it has tostart from with in. I soul searched myself and ask forgiveness for alot of things..I pray that it turns around for our children…I am hurting still tell this day, depressed, stressed and lost 20 ibs in 1 month but I am hanging in there and continuing to soul search myself and continue to forgive nad forget the pst and everything he has done to me..Ilove him and Ihave to except everything about him, and we can build off that..trust and honesty is imortant and learning to forgive and forget the past is most important, I learned that the hard way, I pray that it is not to late for us…Thanks Naomi Garcia…Tulare, Ca
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i know what you are feeling i am in the same situation, Ihurt myex husband and i feelIlost him forever, trust is hard to regain, but il earned to let go of the past and move on for our children. After realizing twoyears later he has moved on and ifound forgiveness within myself and in him and I am trying tomake amends for self first most and for our children nd praying one day that he willcome backto me and our family..Iwanna show him that Ihave changed in nd out it has tostart from with in. I soul searched myself and ask forgiveness for alot of things..I pray that it turns around for our children…I am hurting still tell this day, depressed, stressed and lost 20 ibs in 1 month but I am hanging in there and continuing to soul search myself and continue to forgive nad forget the pst and everything he has done to me..Ilove him and Ihave to except everything about him, and we can build off that..trust and honesty is imortant and learning to forgive and forget the past is most important, I learned that the hard way, I pray that it is not to late for us…Thanks Naomi Garcia…Tulare, Ca
im sorry to hear that Naomi..:(( ill say a prayer for u…dont be depressed and sad ..keep ur head up k…
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