Love help: sometime my mom dont get me i love being on the computer so much - Help.com

wow, that sounds so similar to me. how old are you?

Wtf? You’d run away because of taking away your computer?

Ok Ive been there when i was younger i used to be in computer for long periods of time and i hatted it because mom said i either played too much on the PS2 or on the computer. I hated her really, BUT the thing is that little by little you think its harmless but i was missing out on alot. LIKE KISSING GIRLS AND GOING OUT WITH MY FRIENDS.haha. It turns out my mom was just being protective of me and just didnt want me to waste my life away.
The point is dude, you should be glad your mom loves you enough to worry about your well being. My Dad was cool and i loved him BUT, he would let me do whatever i want wheich ment that if i made a mistake, he wouldnt even care hed just let me do it and let me suffer the concequences.

Suehay dont have thoughts like that. YOur mom may seem “evil
” like in the picture haha but shes not

Oh so u have over protective parents… now about friends… u cant hang out at all??

mhm, my mom did that to me too! are you doing good in school in stuff? do you help around the house?

idk, my mom just got kind of lonely cuz id rather spend time on the computer than with her or my dad.

so i made sure i got good grades, i helped around the house and i spent time with them. and she stopped bugging me about the computer.

also, whenever my mom said she was going to limit my time. it only last for a about a week or two before she gave up and just let me spend as much time as i want.

Try working out an arrangement.. maybe they want to spend more time with you instead of being in the PC?

suehaye wrote:
no not at all that what i am trying to say all i got is the computer

that’s not true.
your mom is trying to limit your time on the computer because she knows it’s not good for you to stay on it all day.

Have u asked her why she doesnt want u on the pc?

she may say that but she does really want you too.

dyep what she said

Chin up dont cry, is she always this upset?

I gotta tell ya i used to be addicted to that WoW game. Im glad those days are over. I kinda miss my 70 hunter though :(

Idk Suehaye, i dont know your mom in a personal level so i cant say what makes her happy. Maybe u should ask her that question ” what can i do to make you hapy” use a puppy face and all haha. That has to hit her in some way :(

I know it would hit my corazon… XD

I really think that if you talk to her while shes calm, something may come of it, as long as u dont give her lip and nag or anything like that. If not, im sorry but you are going to haveto deal with her and make the best of it until u are ready to move out on ur own under ur own rules. say … when ur 21 or so?

np :)

suehaye wrote:
i wish i was liveing with my dad just to see if it would be the same .

If he’s a good parent, he would do the same thing that your mom is. You don’t need to be on the computer for that long, try doing other things with your time. Take your 2 hours on the computer, play outside, hang out with friends, read, study, help around the house, ride a bike, play a sport…the list goes on and on.

My mom is doing that to me now. The computer is keeping me up at night. I don’t go to sleep until liike 6 am and I sleep all through out the day. But I cant help it thats just who I am. And she told me if I dont change my sleeping habits that she will take my laptop away and if she did that I would be really mad at her.. My dad and my split up when I was 6 too. I dont have a baby in the fam. I am the baby in the fam and I HATE that. I say the best thing to do is accept it and move on. Theres nothing more you can do. When you think about it. Two hours is kind of long on the computer. You can just split the time up. Get on for 30 min to be on myspace or whatever. Get off and go do something. Get on another 30 min and get on help.com. Get off go do something. Get back on later…and do the same. Or get on a hour when you first wake up. Then a hour before you go to sleep.

(And its ok I wish I lived with my dad too. He even wants me to live with him. He tells me how my life would be different and such but idk…I would just die being away from my mom even though I wanna strangle her sometimes. And I think it would be the same with you)

I know how you feel. Its summer and there is nothing for me to do. My sis went to wesconsin. My dad lives over two hours from us. My bros live with my dad. Me and my sis live with my mom, all of my friends are out of town, we arent going anywhere until august…Maybe! We didnt do ANYTHING for the fourth of july, all I ate was a sandwhich. T.V. Gets boring. Especially these days.All they play is the same shows over again. My mom is at work from 10 am-9 pm. (they raised her hours) She works on saturday. And when she doesnt work on sunday all my mom wants to do is rest and I understand that. But she has to remember. I am 14 at home alone 24/7. I need to get out of the house or i will go insane. and so I stay on the computer ALL of THE TIME. And my mom doesn’t understand why and when I try to explain to her…She simply gets mad…Or trys to ignore me. Or tell me there is no excuses…

You just have to understand that your mom does the things she do because she loves you. Something that might make your mom laugh is…She said she doesn’t want you talking to you. My mom tells me that ALL THE TIME. And it hurts me really bad. But then I turn it into a joke and I write what I have to say on paper. Then I go put it infront of her face. And on the backside I write…(THIS ISNT TALKING! ITS WRITING.) so when she gets ready to say. I thought I told you not to talk to me…I flip it over. And it always makes her laugh. And me too. Just to know that shes in a better mood.

Try that. It might give you and your mom a good laugh.