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Whitney*Lou
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My boyfriend and I were together from July, 1st 2006 til January 18th 2008.

I love him so much and he still loves me. We broke up because he cheated on me. BUT! He only cheated on me because I kept accuseing him of cheating until he just got so sick of it he finially did. From January 18th we have been trying to work things out. But it kinda seemed like a emotional rollocoaster with him. Somedays he seemed like he really loved me and other’s it’s like he didn’t what to talk to me at all. Then, about a week ago I asked him if he still loved me and he said he didn’t know if he did or not. I went into shock. Then about 4 or 5 days ago I questioned him about it and he said he does still love me. He only told me he didn’t because he thought I was to obessed with him and wrecking me own life. Since then things have been great between us. Things haven’t been this good since before we broke up. Is that a sign that he is getting ready to ask me out again? His reason for not being in a relationship with me is that he works too much. Which is true he does. He works like 65 hours a week. But, since things are going this good could he finially be ready to ask me out again?

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BlindOptimism offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

try not to think about it as you either are or you arent. obviously you like each other but have been through some rough times, so while i’m sure you will ‘officially’ be together again at some point, don’t push or obsess about the specifics.

short answer: yes but don’t blow it :p good luck

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Tobee offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

I hope things work out. Personally emotional rollercoasters arnt that enjoyable, consider taking a small time out for yourself too. If you keep thinking that hes cheating on you its because you feel insecure, work on it instead of putting pressure on him. If you end up together again, just be completely honest always.

Good luck
Tobee

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icv offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

Sounds to me like the whole, he only cheated on me is because I made him, is a very large load of horse puckey. He did it because that is the kind of guy he is not because you harped on him. Run do not walk away.

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snowflake048 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

icv wrote:
Sounds to me like the whole, he only cheated on me is because I made him, is a very large load of horse puckey. He did it because that is the kind of guy he is not because you harped on him. Run do not walk away.

agreed

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Whitney*Lou offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Tyler, TX, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

People make mistakes you know. And he made one by cheating on me. I have already forgiven him for that. I’m not going to run from him because I love him. People cheat on people all the time, and sometimes they get back into a relationship and things are fine. My dad cheated on my mom in their first years of marriage. She forgave him and they are fine now. Sure, they fight like any other couple. But they are still together.

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