Love help: i wish i had someone to love, i just am so tired of being alone! - Help.com

How old are you? If its not a problem to ask?

Love yourself, others will too.

you just have to be patient,.,. and being patient is really hard,.,but everything has its reward

You most likely won’t find true love in high school…lucky for you, you’ve got a lot of time. I found love when I wasn’t looking for it, that’s what worked the best for me and what I hear has worked the best for others. Just go with the flow, have fun and be yourself and the right person will come along. I know how scary it can be, and I was super annoyed too, but I learned there’s really no use worrying over something you don’t have much control over.

Aw. =(
I felt the same way about six months ago. I thought no one would ever love me. People stay single, right ? But no, you’ll definitely find someone. The right man will walk in to your life without so much as a notice. A friend told me to keep an open mind and remember to listen with my ears and not my eyes. It’ll work out. Good luck !

hehe when i was in HS i used to wonder why everyone had a lover or whatnot… Man i dragged that for years until i let it go and made myself independent and focused more on other aspects in life. My point is that you need to wait and be pacient the right person may even fall on ur lap without noticing. Dont go out there into the world looking for a relationship. Get to know people first and if you like em. Get your game on? If you get rejected, too bad your just going to have to woman/man up and find another fish in the sea. There is no ONE person out there, theres several apart. i think i got off topic sorry :(

i feel alone too..:(( so we in the same boat….a sinking boat that is..:((

Noland… I only got my first boyfriend at the end of year 12… Only a year ago! I spent the whole of highschool hating myself and thinking I was not pretty… it made me feel horrible because my best friend for 8 years was the prettiest girl in school and boys would only ever speak to me to get to her. What made it worse was that I was pretty bright and I had got it into my head that boys don’t like bright girls and are just looking for hot birds… in the end i just decided to give up on boys and take care of myself as my #1 priority. It’s funny but the moment I did that a boy did take notice of me… and the best bit about this is that he had fallen for me because of my personality and smarts rather than my looks… and then when I started taking care of myself he saw how beautiful I really was. So now we have been going out for a year or so… and I have to say I feel more secure than any of my friends do with their own boyfriends because I know that this boy likes me for me… and it is the best feeling ever. Don’t beat yourself up Noland… just remember to take care of yourself and the rest will fall into place :)

absolutely, what you said was perfect noland :O)