Love help: my boyfriends gone for 20 days and i miss him like mad. - Help.com

Can you call him?

kindof. but he can’t talk. its more like,
“hey i miss you”
“i miss you too”
“… i can’t talk”
“oh”
and then we say bye and hang up. =/

Absence makes the heart grow fonder?

When you miss him, just think how great it’s going to be once he gets back. :)

Don’t give yourself the option to sit around and go mad, that’s what! ;)

Don’t you want to have a bunch of fun stories to share with him when he’s back? Don’t you want to have a bunch of fun stories to share even if he never comes back?

At best, it’s a short life, my dear. I certainly empathize with the relative misery of missing the one you love.

Make a list of things you want to do, things you would do if he wasn’t your boyfriend (not like “kiss a bunch of boys” or anything!) but fun stuff like see 3 new bands, read 3 books you’ve heard about, see 3 movies on the AFI best films of all time list, twice a week do some new exercise, learn to make 3 new recipes, and then write a poem on the 7th day of each week.

But don’t sit around and miss him and only be able to say “uh, Fritos are really good with chili” when he gets home!

oh, mariposa.
your reply made me smile. [:
thank you. you’re right. i’ll try and find something to do.