girl help: My husband’s sister just passed away from cancer and he - Help.com

I know what it’s like to loose someone you love. I think for the moment, there is not really anything you can do immediately. He is wanting to live inside moments with his sister in the past, wanting them to be in the present. He knows you are trying to help, he does, and he appreciates that. But for now I think he will just need time. What can you do? You can sit with him, be close to him. The comfort of you being there beside him will let him know that he doesnt have to deal with it alone and that you will be there for him.

And, I’ve always been partial to Syndey.

I don’t mean to down play this at all, but this is just to simplify the situation and make it easier to understand. It’s like when someone hits his head really hard and curls up on the floor. While clutching his head in an attempt to relieve at least some pain he is only thinking of how bad the pain is and how can it go away. The former more so than the latter. If you ask him “Are you ok”, at best he will remain silent, but he will most likely lash out at you saying something to the extent of “Do I blankety-blank look ok!?!” The best thing to do is to go to the kitchen and prepare some ice and wait until he is ready to accept it and put the ice on his own head.

Now mind you this is only an illustration, but the same principles of human nature apply. You will both be in my prayers. I hope this helped.

Would you want to name your baby’s middle name after your sister-in-law? It would probably mean a lot to your husband and his family if this is something you would want to do in her honor.

losing someone is really hard to get over it gets worse the closer you are to them you always take people in your life for granted but when they are gone you feel like you lost a huge part of your life but eventually i guess you learn to deal with it

tell him that u have dream that his sister coming as ur baby