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i am about to graduate and have no idea what comes next.

i feel like i am slowly losing my gf who already graduated and has finally settled into her new work/life/city etc. i feel like i have lost all my friends and am just a bitter old man now. in a spot where i can’t speak to my peers and can’t speak to my older collegues! it’s like i have no identity…i exist but only by myself…

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pparr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

What comes next. your character, life goes on try and keep up because I am right there with you. live life to the fullest and have no regrets. you think you might be loosing your girlfriend well get up and get her back, every women loves confidence.

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3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

i totally agree. character, life goes on part…but i am not even sure who i am and what my character is…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

you can find out, just don’t panic.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

You have alot of options in front of you. When did this feeling start? What do you what to happen? Talking is good. Talk toyour friends and girlfriends. Hang inthere, Breathe and take a moment to write out your options or what you wish happen from here. Remember you have accomplished a major goal in your life. Many have not been able to do this. Why are you being so down on yourself?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 hours, 25 minutes after post)

everyone have to move on whatever, they wanted or not! “Friend” is mean someone who never been apart.no one gonna leave you alone.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

hey just do what u want
just not only think make the right moves in time
time is a very crucial factor

u will get answer which will teach u in future success

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