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*!Mary-Chan!*
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I am soooo Jealous.

The guy I liked since the beginning of eighth grade ( going into ninth) met two of my bestfriends. Lizzy, one of my bff’s, met him on msn. So it was cool that they got to meet. but when we got into the car he texted to her ” I am taken by how much more beautiful you are in person rather than pics.” It was soo cute.. But I feel so Jealous..

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cheezelova10 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

well ask your friend that if she can not flirt with him cuz you like him and she knows that!

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Anyone would feel jealous in the situation you described. ((hug))

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

cheezelova10 wrote:
well ask your friend that if she can not flirt with him cuz you like him and she knows that!

Well You see I never told her, and she told me she likes him.

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

I’m bored.. u wanta talk on msn?

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cheezelova10 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

cheezelova10 wrote:
tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again

But i love her, she’s like my sister.

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

well sometimes you gotta bend the rules.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Do you not understand???! She’s my bestfriend, and I love her very much. Plus I think the guy likes her, and I don’t know if he likes me.

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Fire offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

i think this ds person is crazy. who would say something like that to a freind who did nothing wrong?

anyways, if your in the eighth grade, i think youll have a bit more time for guys later. good friends arent that common.

plus, if hes shallow enough to only care about looks…

- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

you’ve got 4years of high skool over 1,000 males and females.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:
Do you not understand???! She’s my bestfriend, and I love her very much. Plus I think the guy likes her, and I don’t know if he likes me.

well you might be screwed then.you might have to let you sister have him.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Well, we’re going into ninth. But they don’t even go to the same school.

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cheezelova10 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

well then u should ask him about his feelings 4 u!!

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Hmm.. Like thisfire is right.. either let your sister win or you…. or make him choose.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

THat’s just wrong.

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Fire offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

ive been in that situation all the time.

im always around guys that girls find handsome or cute, or good looking.

but no one ever finds me the best looking. its annoying.
but i think its made me better for it.

dont think it means anything about you. cause there will be someone who comes along who finds you breathtaking. so dont worry.

- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

you could take turns.

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

taking turns..:\

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
you could take turns.

just kidding

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
you could take turns.
just kidding

you could pay off your sister

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cheezelova10 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

fine ***** then i wont help U!!!

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Fire offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

i just realized that that is a really smooth move for an eighth-ninth grader.
“I am taken by how much more beautiful you are in person rather than pics.”

- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire

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dscreation offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

cheezelova10 wrote:
tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again

Wow, that’s a really stupid suggestion. Her friend didn’t even know she liked him.
I know you’re hurt but I think you ought to let this one go- as in, let them be together. You’ll find someone else, and ninth grade romances never last anyways, its not worth losing a good friend over.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

dscreation wrote:
haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.

roll dice.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:

dscreation wrote:
haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.
roll dice.

spin the bottle.

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cheezelova10 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I agree with dscreation!!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

have an honest sister to sister competition.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

cheezelova10 wrote:
fine ***** then i wont help U!!!

Woah…

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.

umm she’s my bestfriend..

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.
umm she’s my bestfriend..

Same thing though, really.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

GuerillaRadio wrote:

*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.
umm she’s my bestfriend..

Same thing though, really.

hmm………Why is life so unfair?

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ConfusedNeko offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

Well, from my standpoint, this is natural. It’s normal to be jealous this way, but what I recommend is that if this goes any farther, cut it off and ask about how HE feels and whether it will work.

First offense: Keep watch
Second offense: Talk with him
Third offense: You tried, but he’s lost.

I hope I could help.

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*!Mary-Chan!* online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Denver, CO, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 9 minutes after post)

hmm okay..I guess.

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 255 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 7 minutes after post)

That happens to me a lot with my friends and the ONE GUY I LIKED FOREVER. lol. I just learned to let it slide. What made me get over it was one day I seen my bff hug the guy I liked since like 2nd grade. (in 9th grade now) and I was extremely jealous and she came over smiling and all happy and to me it seemed like she was trying to rub it in. So I acted all happy for her so she would think I didnt care and she would stop trying to rub it in my face. (And she did) And I just went and started talking to him. So when I get jealous over a guy. I go talk to that guy so I feel special and that gives me a reason not to be jealous…I try to talk to him as much as possible without seeming like im obssessed over him or like im a stalker. Just do that too. Its like you guys are sharing him, afterall he doesnt belong to your best friend. Just when he makes you jealous, just talk to him. Compliment him to get the convo started…Like. Hey cute shoes, where did you get them…He tells you…you say oh ok. i might buy some…lala. (Only if they are shoes both male and female would wear) Then simply change the topic…And have a short convo until you feel good for talking to him.

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