I am soooo Jealous.
The guy I liked since the beginning of eighth grade ( going into ninth) met two of my bestfriends. Lizzy, one of my bff’s, met him on msn. So it was cool that they got to meet. but when we got into the car he texted to her ” I am taken by how much more beautiful you are in person rather than pics.” It was soo cute.. But I feel so Jealous..
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well ask your friend that if she can not flirt with him cuz you like him and she knows that!
Anyone would feel jealous in the situation you described. ((hug))
cheezelova10 wrote:
well ask your friend that if she can not flirt with him cuz you like him and she knows that!
Well You see I never told her, and she told me she likes him.
tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again
cheezelova10 wrote:
tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again
But i love her, she’s like my sister.
Do you not understand???! She’s my bestfriend, and I love her very much. Plus I think the guy likes her, and I don’t know if he likes me.
i think this ds person is crazy. who would say something like that to a freind who did nothing wrong?
anyways, if your in the eighth grade, i think youll have a bit more time for guys later. good friends arent that common.
plus, if hes shallow enough to only care about looks…
- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire
you’ve got 4years of high skool over 1,000 males and females.
*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:
Do you not understand???! She’s my bestfriend, and I love her very much. Plus I think the guy likes her, and I don’t know if he likes me.
well you might be screwed then.you might have to let you sister have him.
Well, we’re going into ninth. But they don’t even go to the same school.
well then u should ask him about his feelings 4 u!!
Hmm.. Like thisfire is right.. either let your sister win or you…. or make him choose.
ive been in that situation all the time.
im always around guys that girls find handsome or cute, or good looking.
but no one ever finds me the best looking. its annoying.
but i think its made me better for it.
dont think it means anything about you. cause there will be someone who comes along who finds you breathtaking. so dont worry.
- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire
spiratec9 wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:just kidding
you could take turns.
you could pay off your sister
i just realized that that is a really smooth move for an eighth-ninth grader.
“I am taken by how much more beautiful you are in person rather than pics.”
- Live Life Exuberantly, Thisfire
haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.
cheezelova10 wrote:
tell her you did first and you already liked him and she just cant barge in and take over! you have the freedom of speech to tell her she’s a ***** and u never want to see her again
Wow, that’s a really stupid suggestion. Her friend didn’t even know she liked him.
I know you’re hurt but I think you ought to let this one go- as in, let them be together. You’ll find someone else, and ninth grade romances never last anyways, its not worth losing a good friend over.
dscreation wrote:
haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.
roll dice.
spiratec9 wrote:
dscreation wrote:roll dice.
haha lol thats really wrong. Just keep on hanging out than say i’m tired of this. we cant have the same guy and make him choose.. problem solved.
spin the bottle.
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.
spiratec9 wrote:
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.
umm she’s my bestfriend..
*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:umm she’s my bestfriend..
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.
Same thing though, really.
GuerillaRadio wrote:
*!Mary-Chan!* wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:umm she’s my bestfriend..
best of all simply have a heart to heart talk with your sister.Same thing though, really.
hmm………Why is life so unfair?
Well, from my standpoint, this is natural. It’s normal to be jealous this way, but what I recommend is that if this goes any farther, cut it off and ask about how HE feels and whether it will work.
First offense: Keep watch
Second offense: Talk with him
Third offense: You tried, but he’s lost.
I hope I could help.
That happens to me a lot with my friends and the ONE GUY I LIKED FOREVER. lol. I just learned to let it slide. What made me get over it was one day I seen my bff hug the guy I liked since like 2nd grade. (in 9th grade now) and I was extremely jealous and she came over smiling and all happy and to me it seemed like she was trying to rub it in. So I acted all happy for her so she would think I didnt care and she would stop trying to rub it in my face. (And she did) And I just went and started talking to him. So when I get jealous over a guy. I go talk to that guy so I feel special and that gives me a reason not to be jealous…I try to talk to him as much as possible without seeming like im obssessed over him or like im a stalker. Just do that too. Its like you guys are sharing him, afterall he doesnt belong to your best friend. Just when he makes you jealous, just talk to him. Compliment him to get the convo started…Like. Hey cute shoes, where did you get them…He tells you…you say oh ok. i might buy some…lala. (Only if they are shoes both male and female would wear) Then simply change the topic…And have a short convo until you feel good for talking to him.
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