Love help: Hi, I just joined here, and there’s something that has really been bugging me. - Help.com

have you ever met this person face to face

lucie wrote:
have you ever met this person face to face

No, but we’ve exchanged pictures, my main concern is that I really don’t know how I feel about a thing. I’m trying to recognize whether or not I am really interested, for lack of a better word, in her.

i have had these feelings where i have chatted with someone for so long i have strong feelings for them, but you need to meet up, you can’t really know a person fully till you have met, they cold be not telling you the full truth about them. i also have someone who keeps telling me they love me, miss me, think about me when i’m not around, but they have only spoke to me on the net, so although i think i’m great they don’t really know me, i think you form attachments but the only way is too meet. however you need to be very careful when meeting someone you have met on the net

Thanks, at least I have a place to stand on this. I still feel confused, but not drowning in it. I accomplished something, at least.

No one can tell you what you feel, only you can decide that for yourself, you may “like liker” her or you could possibly just care about her as a friend. Think about it tonight or tomorrow depedong on your time lol and decide for yourself weather you like her as a friend or more, once you decide dont hold back, make sure she dosent have a boy n ask her friends if she likes anyone, if they say yea she has a bf then dnt ask, if they say yea she likes a guy then be like do you knwow ho it is and ask some Qs that can give u hints to whom it is and nif u think it is u then go for it.

many time male makes fake profiles

Angel of no tomorrow wrote:
No one can tell you what you feel, only you can decide that for yourself, you may “like liker” her or you could possibly just care about her as a friend. Think about it tonight or tomorrow depedong on your time lol and decide for yourself weather you like her as a friend or more, once you decide dont hold back, make sure she dosent have a boy n ask her friends if she likes anyone, if they say yea she has a bf then dnt ask, if they say yea she likes a guy then be like do you knwow ho it is and ask some Qs that can give u hints to whom it is and nif u think it is u then go for it.

That’s the main issue: I CAN’T figure out what it is because I’ve never experienced it before. I know it sounds stupid, but I just can’t get answers out of myself. And I need to figure this out because I don’t want to end up realizing the answer is leaning towards “I do” and having her boyfriend get ticked. I’m just trying to sort this out before I blurt it out.

rohit57 wrote:
many time male makes fake profiles

I know this is a girl because not only did I get the picture I previously talked about, her friends I chat with have posted pictures of her at completely different times an on different subjects.