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I know I have been gone and I am not myself lately: Part 2.

This was one of the worse weeks ever and I am worried that I’m losing it.
1. I was really cruel to someone important to me.
2. I still haven’t emailed anyone because I’m so hurt that I almost don’t want to think about all that is wrong.
3. I lost my cell phone and got a flat on the same day.
4. I sincerely dread waking up in the morning.
5. I asked all the wrong people in my personal life for help and everything got worse, including me.

Sigh, when will thigs get better again? :(

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sweetkisses_fromm offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

gosh :( well u got to start with the smallest parts .. and the basics the reason to all of this is ?? .. what are the reasons for all the effects that occured with u to handle

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Nante offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 471 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

They will, but a better question is when things get better will you notice? or will you be too busy being depressed? Saddness is a waste it makes it harder to just deal with things, dont give in to being sad there is ALWAYS A WAY TO FIND HAPPINESS, just look a little further.

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sweetkisses_fromm offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

mm i believe that no u wont notice when the situation gets better since u’re busy with the sadness and depression in u .. then i supose u should do fun stuff and go to where there is happiness .. well they’re problems u got this week and for sure they’ll be cured ,,, but what’s important is taht u need to get over them .. so i suggest u start going out 4get ur problems stay with ur friends the one u r sure of that they’re good .. go out have some fun dance:P go crazy:p or i dont know ur opersonality to tell u .. how do u enjoy ur time? .. ya happiness is a cure

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shol'vah offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Anchorage, AK, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Wake up with a smile in the morning even if you don’t feel like it, sometimes we have to hope and pretend things are better to make them start being better, that plus it should help take your mind off the bad stuff and make it easier to focus on the good.

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most-wanted-websites offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
Washington, DC, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 hours, 38 minutes after post)

hey nikko — wb (I missed the other thread)

here’s what I think about #5 (above): don’t ask for something general (like “help”) — ask for specifics (like a “free lunch” ;)

glad you’re back — missed you!

BD

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 46 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

They will get right!
Just remain our awesome Nikko, and things will get fine!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

Now, right now:) It is foggy, cooooool:), and gloomy in my neck of the woods this am:)

What’s it like in your neck of the woods Nikko:)?

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nikko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
US | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

right now, it is sunny, awful and a day of sunblock.

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nikko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
US | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

I do belong to all of you Molotok.

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 46 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 3 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

Hehe thanks, but I meant “our Nikko” in a cute way.
I am fed up with possessive “love”. Real love is about giving and caring, returned or not.
You have given so much, I hope that you feel that you are very appreciated.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

Hey nikko another day of dog walks and budget talks, ho hum, it’s Tuesday.

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nikko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
US | 3 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

hey tuesdays suck..hehe but you are awsome anyaya

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nikko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
US | 3 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

anyway, , hi you and be we well.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

nikko wrote:
anyway, , hi you and be we well.

be we well we shall:)

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