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Well um first off killing period is a big no no, things sukc im sure but what is it thats so bad you feel like this.

y do u feel this way ?
maybe that’s a thought in u u keep thinking of .. not more

sweetkisses_fromm wrote:
y do u feel this way ?
maybe that’s a thought in u u keep thinking of .. not more

I dont really know why i get this :s it just comes to me

do you even WANT to be happy? figure out how to turn those evil thoughts around so that you can laugh at them or feel pure sadness at the loss of your family. what other sort of reactions whould you have if you really did kill your family? what would you do afterwards? how would you evade the police? would you go to their funerals or just watch from behind a tree? would your grandparents ever talk to you again? and maybe your niece would be afriad to play with you after that.
or laugh at those thoughts. imagine that its a cartoon. hit your dad with an ax and split him right down the middle. and have him pop right back together!
change the way you think about those thoughts.

First take a deep breath. This is your family we’re talking about. Are you sure that you really want to kill them or is it just a random thought?

The thing is, it’s actually pretty normal to have these thoughts. The thing is if you actually act on them: and I must stress on you, no matter how good it sounds, DO NOT act on them. Try writing clever murder short stories to get it out. If you really need to, base the main characters off your family. As long as you understand that these thoughts are not good, it’s fine. Maybe distract yourself instead? Listen to your music, go jogging, write, read, paint, draw a picture filled with emotion. You’re better then this, I can tell. Just take all this negative and try to make it positive. Instead of thinking “I want to kill them” try to think “if I was some famous detective, and these were some murder victims, how could I tell who did it? Maybe…” start detaching them from your thoughts, start making your thoughts more about other, fictional, people so that no harm will be done to anyone.

Good Luck.

WE each approach a problem in a diff. way, and as a Christian, I feel that these thoughts are being inflicted from an outside source. One that desires to lead us astray, and cause us to do damage to ourselves and others.

Not sure if you are a Christian, or have ever sat under any Christian teaching, or know anything about the bible?

Anyway, the bible teaches that we do have an enemy, and his name is Satan, but, we have power over him, thru the Name of Jesus.

We are in a warfare, and the weapons of our warfare are mighty, to the pulling down of strongholds….. wickness in high places.. in other words.. in the mind.

This is the battlefield, between good and evil.

More and more people are being attacked in this area. And more and more people are acting on the impulses, that they receive.

You can learn how to reject the thoughts on your own. Or you can join a good bible based church, that teaches the truth, and have the priviledge of their prayers. There is much protection in a Godly assembly.

Joyce Meyer has a very good book out titled The Battlefield of the Mind. It goes into depth, discussing this subject. I highly rec. it. You can find a copy on Amazon.com, I imagine, or you can go to her website and order one.

Jesus gives us the power to bind.. and loose… in other words, to bind those things that are coming against us, to do us harm, and to loose those things that are good in our lives.

Prayer can help tremendously, however, that alone, is not enough, you must follow up with good teaching, to be free.

You can post a prayer request at the following places:

wjcr.org click on prayer

Godswork.org ” ”

frangipane.org ” “

dailyguidepost.org ” “”

Shout me, if you would like for me to pray with you, or to discuss this further.

God be with you.

I will be praying for you.